is it wrong ?

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by ausaqi, Jan 2, 2008.

  1. ausaqi

    ausaqi Member

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    i'm 27 m .. i'm still virgin 4 some belief... is this wrong ?
     
  2. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    Why do you feel the need to ask?
     
  3. Hip Aficionado

    Hip Aficionado Member

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    If you really need some poon, go get some. I won't hold it against you if your beliefs tell you not to though. I respect that.
     
  4. sunshine4life

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    as longs as your not 40
     
  5. potsmokingnome

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    Nope nothing wrong with that. I lost my virginity at 24. Sex will happen when it will happen lol and I also wonder why do you have to ask?
     
  6. pat_mycat

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    Dood.
    i was about to write 'atleast your not 40'
     
  7. High

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    It is not wrong. You will feel yourself when it is the right time.
     
  8. ausaqi

    ausaqi Member

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    coz everybody here has sex. and pple get really worried if they don't have sex . they even relate it to health and stuff. that's y i'm asking.

    thank u everybody 4 ur replies.
     
  9. ChokingGirl

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    Abstaining from sex had probably saved you from lots of headache and misadventure.
    Be glad that whenever you decide to have sex.. you are stable mentally enough to deal with the emotional burden and know what you want.

    Kudos to you..
     
  10. Pocket

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    just wait and it'll happened when you find the right person....
     
  11. pug

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    Yes, it will certainly happen in time dont feel pressured in to it because of your age.

    Even at 40, if you are still a virgin its not a problem!
    There is more to life then sex.

    Masturbation is good and best of all its free.
    Check out this site for 18+ adult content, http://tinyurl.com/2wshos
     
  12. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    I don't really think there is the "right person" to have sex with.


    I think, rather, there are the right conditions. And those are: both of you are on the same page regarding expectations.

    Also, some will give you kudos for not having sex, especially women. There is obviously something of a gender socialization dynamic at work here.

    Having sex in itself is neither good nor bad. Neither right nor wrong.

    Perhaps not having sex saves you a lot of grief. But it also saves you a lot of amazing experiences. If saving ourselves from grief was the thing, there would be no reason to leave your room.

    A life well-lived for me entails risks. But it also entails following your nose and no one else's.

    And, finally, in a life well-lived you communicate openly with others and find that which is mutual with those around you.

    That way, you save yourself a lot of grief, but you do not save yourself a lot of rewarding experiences.
     
  13. Musikero

    Musikero Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Great post dude.:)
     
  14. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    Thanks, Musikero. Your posts are really insightful too.
     

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