Its not that hard to do. (If you have experience and can find it ) its right above the actual whole you are sticking your dick in. This is how id get girls to have multiple Os and some Big Os They really can come alot and make a whole pillow wet if done correctly
Such a romantic perspective! Most of the women I've known preferred this kind of manual stimulation as both foreplay and afterplay. It's also better if you can kiss them and bite their neck a little while rubbing (have clean hands and be well lubricated already) in long slow vertical strokes and then merging into short, circular strokes. All the while you have to listen to her and make certain you're not being too rough. This sort of soft tissue is very easy to injure with rough handling and can render the area (and your relationship) unusable for days. It also helps to feed her first and provide soft music, candles and lots of talk about your feelings toward her. If you suffer from carpal tunnel syndrome, learn to use either hand effectively so you can swap without missing a beat (or stroke). If all of this is too much work, hire an escort! Women are worth the extra effort. Also, if you're having trouble understanding women's anatomy, READ up on it. There is a wealth of material out there that explaains everything in the fullest detail. If you're not inclined toward vulgar or clinical language, turn to the Kama Sutra. CF
You're entirely right of course, I'm a man, so my experience is limited to what I have learned from the women in my life. I didn't mean to supply a 1-size fits all perspective either. I just wanted to make an improvement over the "just rub it" methodology that opened the thread. By all means share with us the methodology you prefer. It will only help women all over the world and make a few of we men less ignorant about the joys of the female form. CF By the way folks, Hip Forums has an excellent chat room. It's private so it doesn't get any of the crap other chat servers get (like porn links and spam).
I prefer the G-spot method of stimulation, faster, easier to get a grip of and you want to talk about cumming let's talk about squirting!
Just listen to what the woman likes, because we're all unique in what gives us the most pleasure. I like a mixture of everything...my bf takes care of me. My hot spots are the g-spot and the that oval/teardrop groove that's between the vaginal opening and the labia. And of course, over-the-hood stimuli.
My wife also prefers double duty with a circular motion on the Graffenberg with only moderate pressure and then circular motions around and over her clitoris at verying speeds. This usually causes me to have my shoulders up for extended periods and I suffer from intense carpal tunnel being a writer, but if my posture is perpendicular to her, I can last as long as it takes for her to er, uh respond! How I adore you women critters! CF
