The other night my fiance had a wet dream, and he said it was because he dreamed he was cumming on my face. So, the next night when I was going down on him, I let him cum on my face. It didn't really bother me or anything, but it definitely did nothing for me. Can someone please explain the appeal of cumming on someone's face to me? He says he doesn't know why he likes it, he just does.
It's a turn on for some men, plain and simple. Who knows why different people are turned on by different activities. If it's fun for him and you don't mind I say don't hold back. Some say it's a power trip but if he treats you with respect in general, what's the harm?
For me its nothing to do with power... I usually try to date women that just as aggressive and dominate as I am. Its for fun that way. But I like it simply cause I like the look of it...there is something special when you have a women willing to share everything with you.
personally i enjoy them (occasionally mind you) because theyre naughty, and its a fun part if were playing a d/s type scenario instead of tender loving
Of course I don’t know how all girls feel about letting a guy cum on their face, but as you mentioned in your thread, your friend doesn’t seem to want to try it, most likely it’s because she may think that it’s just a male porn thing, or that it’s only meant to be degrading towards women, if she knew why some guys enjoyed giving it, and why some girls enjoy receiving it, it could help her to see things differently or NOT!:talk2hand I can’t speak on the girl’s end of it an much, except for what some girls have told me, but for some of us guys it goes something like this. It’s not about power, or being degrading to women, or any other silly macho thing like that, it’s totally a visual thing for us, natural visual enjoyment. Most men are more visual than women technically speaking in nature, but some men are more visual than other, so if a lady like yourself were to have a boyfriend or husband who is more visual, he may want to ejaculate somewhere on your body, rather than inside of you more often than other men, kind of like a person watching a music video, where you get to listen and watch visually with your eyes what’s going on, instead of just listening to a music CD, where there would be no visual things to see, you would only be able to enjoy hearing it. Men who are not as visual, will most likely want to ejaculate inside a girl more often than not, because they just want to enjoy what the ejaculation feels like, not much into watching it on her physically. Still you might ask, but why on the face? Well I believe it’s because, out of every part of a girl’s body, the face is the most identifying part, that makes her who she is, as well as it being one of the most beautiful parts of her body. When a girls allows a guy to cum on her face, it kind of represents both her and the guy just letting go and enjoying the mess, and her getting messy represents her not being afraid to get her hands dirty, getting a little ugly in the sack as they say, and that she’s not too cute and pretty to cut loose with her man. For the girl it’s like her painting a picture of art, without worrying about the mess, because she’s enjoy herself so much with it, it all an expression of fun etc, etc For the guy :drool: it’s fun, to watch and see the physical evident, of one of the reasons why it felt so good to cum in the first place, but it being on her makes it different and special, not just some dam mess clinging around. SO A FACIAL IS BOTH A SYMBOLIC & PHYSICAL EXPRESSION IT’S VERY VISUAL……........... PS. Stay Cool ROYBOY
It also has to do with marking ones territory though, much like a dog pees on a tree. Not as romantic as the visual version presented above, but its something some of the girls will suspect is at least part of the motivation
for me personally, it's not a dominant thing. it's more of a "oh what a naughty girl you've been" sort of deal.
I personally like it because its a huge sign of dominance, which is probably the same reason most guys like it.
You said it right, bro! Also, watch him, lady, he may be into a power trip. I love the evasions of power, 'visual' seems to do that nicely. You get above her, you aim at her, you shoot all over the most obvious part of her (getting in her eyes, mouth, maybe nose, hair) and its just the visual that you like. Ha! Yeah, the visual of dominance, power, and probably a little humiliation. Wonder how many of the visual boys are into eating her out first - or getting off another way first? Just asking.
Is it power? I just think it looks hot, I'm kinda over facials anyway, it's just not practical, I think tits are better.
Maybe I'm in the minority here, but I prefer the physical sensation, by far, to the visual ones. When having sex with a woman I much prefer to follow the mating instinct & ejaculate while penetrated deep into the vagina, feeling the orgasmic vaginal contractions pulsating around the shaft as I do so. On occasion I have complied to her own desires by masturbating to the peak, so as to ejaculate in her mouth, but that was only for her sake, not for my own. Not only am I not really into ejaculating externally, where the option applies, but my personal preference towards porn is the same. I am turned on most by a good, natural creampie shot, seeing nature follow its course by making the penis eventually flop out as it loses its ability to remain erect after having delivered its seed. Even when masturbating with my FleshLight, nothing feels better than depositing the load nice & deep. The visual side of things doesn't come into it at all.
I understand what you mean. I'm a very aggressive, tenacious person, with lots of ambition, but instead of dating weak women I really cannot stand girls who are not pretty ambitious and strong because I cannot respect them. If I can't respect a girl, the relationship won't work out. Now I don't really like facials, I mean they are ok I guess but I could take or leave them, but I can see the appeal to some extent. I think it'd be hot to do sometimes, but I'm not obsessed like some guys. But ultimately if he likes it, why does he have to explain it? I'm not sure sex is that much of a rational thing.
this is one of my fav things to do..it turns me on even more when the my girls tells me to dot it to her...i think i like it just because it is something diff...and i also love to see her reaction when i cum on her face...
