My sister hates me

I wouldnt do a damn thing for her anymore.

 

i honestly think it's a universal siblings thing
my older brother hates me, i honestly don't get it
he came home for christmas, i tried being nice to him, wanted to go to the bar with him and hang out but he spent the entire time here bitching at me
my little brother and me get along better but we fight constantly, he changes into a totally different person when he's around his friends
he never recognizes all the things i do for him, he has no respect for anyone and has anger issues
i'm not perfect and have a lot of issues too, but it'd be nice if they could recognize when i'm trying to be nice to them

 

Omfg.
And she just took my fucking money to buy dohnuts with for her fucking boyfriend and she's at his house right now.

What the fuck is wrong with her?

 

kick that bitch in the shin!

 

Did she just take it out of your purse or weasel you into giving it to her?
What a bitch!
Don't let her do it anymore. Just flat out refuse to do anything for her.

 

i know how you feel.. not because i have an older sister/brother, but because i AM an older sister. when i was your sister's age, i'm guessing she's around 16? i would push my little brother around and make him do shit for me and i would beat him up all the time and everything.. it's just a phase, she's a teenager, and she goes through things that all teenagers do..

now. i'm older and me and my brother get along like we're best friends.
the phase will pass, don't worry

as for now, just stop doing shit for her and don't listen to her when she screams at you

 

i advise against this, this could back fire on you
i kicked my friend phil in the shin a couple of weeks ago and he broke my shin
the bruise is just starting to go away

 

^ broke your shin from a kick? you must have some matchstick shins =o

 

i have no sisters!

 

i must say, i am, or was, the older sister. my sister, shes 14. i am 17. when we were younger i would beat her up, call her names, make her cry, almost like, kill her physically and mentally. but i have grown up. there is probably not a day that goes by where i dont think about how i wish things were different. i dont live with her anymore, she lives with my mom and i live with my dad. its just that it took a huge change in life for me to realize how terrible i was being. i love her to death and i look up to her even though she is younger than me. but i really think our relationship isnt able to be fully repaired. what i am trying to get across here is that i hope it doesnt take something tragic or bad to happen in order for your sister to realize what she is doing to you. but...sometimes, that IS what it takes. and im really sorry you have an older sister like that because whenever i hear about them, i just want to scream at them and show them what they are doing. idk, lol, i kinda just went on a rant there. but someday, your sister will realize what she did and things will get better. just right now, stick up for yourself and dont let her boss you around. dont do things for her. make her take her own punishments.

 

Oh, she really really must fucking hate me.

Friday night, we had my boyfriend and her boyfriend come over. me and my boyfriend hung out in the living room all night with my neighbors, watching tv. Alaina and her boyfriend, Dana, fucked around in her room all fucking night. Somehow my parents found out and went to ask my sister about it and you know what she says? "It was Ryann's idea." She fucking narked me out. Yeah, it was my idea. So was you're Idea to get wasted you're 8th grade year and put out a cigarette on you're fucking arm. it was also you're idea to leave the house 5 times a day to go have a cigarette, and of course, you're best fucking idea, to leave our older sisters out and go out to fuck you're boyfriend. But you know what, it was my idea to give you coffee to sobber you up, it was my idea to distract mom and dad and it was my idea to deniy everthing dad said that you and dana did. But, i guess, that one of my 5 in my entire life that I will need you to cover up for me, you couldn't cover for me, now i'm fucking grounded.

You have fucked up so much in you're fucking life and I have always picked up the pieces and covered them up so mom and dad wouldn't notice. You are the biggest fucking bitchest sister there is. Go fuck yourself, you're on your fucking own.

The worst part of all of this is, i told Dad that she was in her room with dana all night and he asked her if it was true and she said "No, Ryann's a fucking lair. i was out here all night"

They fucking believed her too. They believed her word over mine. The word that has lied to them time and time again, and they know it has.

Why the fuck do the fucking worst people never get in trouble, but the moment the good people do something, they are in so much shit.
I don't fucking get it

 

sounds like its time to completely stop doing her favours and let her stumble along on her lonesome

 

yeah my sister is exact same way when your older she will get over shit and u will start kinda being a bitch back after awhile... we were like that until one day we got in a fist fight... well she tried to fite me i didnt hit her.... and after that we have got along since we still have our times tho but its for legit reasons now...

 

its okay, my sis is pissed at me cus im dating her best friend....

 

My sister and I fought like cats and dogs when we were young but when we got older we became best of friends. I think we always loved each other even back when we were fighting. I’d just give it some time.

 

As for your other question about all you do for your sister, I’d ask myself why I do them, is it just to get something in return? Then I’d stop, because it’s not working. But is it, just who you are and you enjoy doing things for others especially your sisters I’d keep doing them because you should never worry about what others do or think, it’s what you do and think that determines who You are and who You will be.