Frustrated..and Looking..

Discussion in 'Lesbian' started by lovelorned, Oct 9, 2007.

  1. lovelorned

    lovelorned Banned

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    I'm really frustrated now..I'm trying to find a girlfriend now..anybody with the same issue?
     
  2. spirit of the night

    spirit of the night Senior Member

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    hell yes, its so damn annoying, I want to find someone, but I will be moving from my city soon, so I don't want to find someone, then leave.

    but seriously, you are not alone.


    Its hard to find likeminded friends, let alone a girlfriend.

    but I wish you the best of luck.

    Let us know when you find that special person :)

    Blessings
    xxxxxxxx
     
  3. lovelorned

    lovelorned Banned

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    Thanks, you to!.:)
     
  4. steph_r

    steph_r Member

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    Stop looking!
    Sod's law. The more you look, the less likely you are to find one.
    You know one's going to randomly pop up when you least expect it ;)
     
  5. honeyfugle

    honeyfugle pumpkin

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    i would love a g/f.

    shame i'm still a closet case then.

    :(
     
  6. lilprincess

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  7. funkyfate

    funkyfate Member

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    EXACTLY!!:)
     
  8. unlearn.and.be.free

    unlearn.and.be.free Guest

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    Sod's law is true...but it's frustrating. If you want something, it's hard to force yourself NOT to. This just leads me to believe that when you DO want one, she won't come...but once you're not in a relationship state of mind, the love of your life will come around...and what if you turn her away?

    lol!
     
  9. funkyfate

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    I followed the law and BOY was I thankful I did!!

    I found love when I LEAST expected it and didn't realize she was RIGHT in front of me the WHOLE time!! Patiently being my bestfriend for two years watching me mourn over an ex gf and trying to move on. FInally when I moved on and was ready to pursue a relationship her and I met in person (she lives in another country) and that was it for us. I fell in love immed. She had already fallen in love with me over the year but with-held from acting on it as she said my friendship was want she needed most.

    When we met eye to eye it was love and we've happily been sharing our secret lives together for over 4 months. Known her for 2 years.
     
  10. Bocks

    Bocks Senior Member

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    Congratulations! That's awesome.

    I know, it's true. I had this ginourmous crush on a girl a while back, and in pursuing her, I fell head over heels for a friend of hers who kept "hanging around me" (or so I thought at the time). BAM. I'd never been so in love in my life. Wowie.
     
  11. mystik_lilac

    mystik_lilac Super Moderator Lifetime Supporter

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    Mmhmm... I was dumped in August, was NOT looking for anything already. Was still hurting. And this amazing person wandered into my life. She is not my girlfriend yet, but there is potential...and its heading that way...
     
  12. c0c0

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    I feel your pain...but I've gotta say Sod's law is gold. When I was looking and desperate I took the first one that came along, we rushed and it didn't end well. Good things take time!
     

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