my fave would be getting my gf to do it, but if i have to play alone, hmm well when i start, sometimes if i press in just above the pelvic bone, it feels really good, makes me come faster. dunno if that works for anyone else
Get yourself a FleshLight, and maybe a couple of additional inserts. My favourite is the Wonder Wave insert, but I occasionally change to the Ribbed or the Original for a bit of variety. The Original used to be a bit bland, having no additional texturing built in, but over time the material has worn & roughened, so that it has quite a realistic 'furry' texture - exactly the same as is found inside a woman's vagina. However, the other inserts have different types of texture designed to stimulate the penis, from ribs to nodules, all of which can provide a very realistic sensation. For a more basic variation on masturbating, though, have you tried it while wearing a condom? As well as adding that extra pressure on the head as you pull back, stretching the latex, it has other advantages, such as getting you familiar with using a condom (if you are not already familiar with the skill), making clean up easier, but most of all, it can simply be a major turn on & feel so good in the process. Another technique I always recommend is the one I call "The Dribbler", although this entails a great deal of practice & being familiar with every sensation of your body. The Dribbler is a variation of the basic "Stop 'n' Go", except that whereas the Stop 'n' Go requires you to stop as you approach orgasm & rest a while before continuing, The Dribbler requires that you go that little bit further - up until that moment when you feel the semen starting to rise, but just before the orgasm itself. At this point you need the will power to stop dead. If you manage this, the semen will be released, but without the power of the orgasm behind it, so rather than spurting out, it will simply dribble out (hence the technique name). Because you have not yet reached a climax you should still have an erection & be able to continue with the session. If you have the will you can repeat this over & over again, using the semen released on each successive ejaculation as a lube. This, in itself, adds a nices touch as it whips it up into a frothy texture, which takes on a sweet, light flavour. One word of warning, however - When you finally let yourself go for that final orgasm, be sure you are out of earshot of anyone, as the resluting orgasm can be so intense that you may well end up screaming in ecstacy (no exaggeration) - you may even feel as if you are about to faint from the pleasure. When you first start using this method, you might manage 2 - 3 ejaculations, but should get better with practice over time as you learn to recognise the warning signs. My personal record for this method is 10 ejaculations before finally yielding to the ultimate climax. I reckon the neighbours must have been wondering what all the shouting was about.
