Help! Old School Advice On How To Deal With Scavengers!

Now look folks usually I am a cool and friendly 'hippie' but lately I've just been having some problems.

I meet up with a guy that I knew pretty well, but not too well, he just moved to the area and we figured we'd hang out since we have a mutual best friend. He finds out I smoke & I find out that he's been under the hell of a long dry spell...

To do good & in the spirit of love I hook the brother up & now - now he won't get off my back and only wants to hang out for weed. This guy is no kid, he's 27+ and employed as a teacher...little did I know he was such a new schooler and just couldn't appreciate me hooking him up with a few twenty bags. I'm 10 years younger than these fools.

I've been sick since before the holidays & in the hospital getting loads of medical tests, I still don't feel well, I tell him - maybe after the holidays I'll run into something-LIE! (yeah whatever a day without weed is a day without air for me). So this 'friend' lets all the holidays pass & now on Jan 2 out of no where he texts me "how were your holidays?". All this guy does is text me constantly for weed, or beats around the bush in an attempt at adult maturity...bottom line - he always wants weed & his "friendship" status revolves around weed and weed only.

He said we'd go hiking and whatnot...

Nope. He changes plans once he gets weed for him & his roomie. Who by the way is a total square and thinks that he's seen 'weed drug rings' go down & who is loud and obnoxious in his 30s and still doesn't know how to handle his shit.

So how do I drop these scavengers w/o being a total bitch?

If he doesn't wanna hang out for anything but weed, I don't want to be his friend. Sure we can hang out and smoke - but I'm not having a friendship based on just weed.

 

tell him to fuck off

 

Up your prices. Tell him you ran out. Say you quit...He'll get the hint and move on.

Or you could invite a few other friends over while he's over...maybe he'll leech onto one of them lol.

You're obviously his only connection. maybe point him in the direction of some other connections?

 

I seriously hate people like that, tell him off and be done with it

 

So how does this status go because I'm confused. A. Does he only hang out with you because you give him free weed B. do you sell to him or C. do you know a dealer and you go get it for him. Those later 2 aren't so bad, C can get annoying at times but not really. But if he only wants to hang out with you for weed I'd stop answearing his texts or phone calls. There was a group of 4 people with the ages 13,15,17,17, and all they would do is call me everyday to hook them up. That is why I say number C gets annoying but hell those people always blazed there weed with me that I hooked up for them so its a win, win, win. Because the dealers happy for the money, I'm happy for getting high, and there happy for getting weed.

 

just continuously make excusses, untill he gets sick of the,

 

just tell him you quit lol

 

When I get a leech, I usually bring him to a group of people and he finds some hookups. He probably just doesn't have anywhere to get weed right now, and since you keep smoking him up free, he keeps coming back.

 

Yeah, don't smoke somebody up free like that...its like feeding a stray cat and getting pissed off when he meows on your doorstep at 3 in the morning.

Friends, sure, its what friends do...strangers, a couple times, but since he's obviously no friend of yours the leech needs to leave. Karma for you for spreading the love, but enough is enough. Let him know what's up, directly or indirectly.

 

Just flat out tell him what is wrong with him, and tell him to change or you won't sell to him. It is your choice to sell him weed or not, so just slap his ass with an ultimatum!

Lol ^ I didn't see you said w/o being a bitch. Give him suggestions and become more of a friend to him. Then he will try to be good so you enjoy his presence. Be more of a hippie and just ask nicely to smoke with you sometimes.