Girlfriend Question!?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by qb1789, Dec 29, 2007.

  1. qb1789

    qb1789 Member

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    Okay i have been going out with my girl for almost a year (jan 15) and for about 8 solid months weve been doing alot sexually. For the first 6 months she was really into it wanting to do it. Now I always have to make the moves. But we still do stuff but not that frequent. Shes 16 Im 18 i just dont know why shes doing this. Anyone know? Anyone know what I should do? When i have brought it up she says that theres no reason. But idk. I need to find out how to bring it up better i think.


    Thankssss
     
  2. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    might have something to do with her being female and wanting to feel desired
     
  3. ahimsa

    ahimsa Senior Member

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    Well, the fire cools after awhile. Like said above, you've got to do things to keep things special and interesting and intimate. Your relationship needs ongoing maintenance and attentioin to keep the passion going. You didn't mentioin how you relate otherwise, so I can't really make any comment. However, I bet if you asked, she would give you some ideas on whats bugging her/what would turn her on.

    The other thing is that you're both young, and moods change with the wind at your age. I know my first relationships seemed like the last, but then fizzled. Not saying it'll happen to you, but, sometimes, things change if you know what I mean.

    peace
     
  4. qb1789

    qb1789 Member

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    yeah everything else with the relationshiop is still great im just so confused, and i asked again and she said that there is really no reason.... idk i guess i will just wait and see
     
  5. jneil

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    She wants you too take the initative and initiate sex. It's just a male/female thing.
     
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