Grumpy People

I hate being around them. Espiecially when someone wakes up and you can see they're in a bad mood right away.

 

Through living with one for 3 years i have learned to withstand it sometimes by going to a special place in my mind, but it doesn't always work.


i am around it a lot less now than back then

 

I can tune out...sometimes..... my own little world...

 

Make them happy people by being a not so grumpy person... if ya let it rub off on you, you have only continued the grump.

 

I dont feel good. I'm sneezing constantly and have cramps.. and he gets up and starts bitching at me right away... this is so making me consider making other plans tonight...

 

you can't always have your good mood rub off on a grumpy person, in fact it often backfires and makes it worse because it annoys them

 

I'm grumpy 24/7 unless I'm stoned/drunk

 

Out with the bad, in with the good

Coolin out and crackin a smile solves most every emotional problem

 

All I know is.... I'm going to get a bath and smoke a bowl now and be by myself for like an hour.. haha. Then I'm gonna go eat and drink some beers and if he wants to be cranky, whatever... i dont care

 

Either way, I refuse to allow someone to bring me down.

Perhaps if they adopted the same attitude they would not be down in the first place.

It takes persistence... those that are "naturally" grumpy are harder to turn around than those that are just having a bad day... but an emotion is just that, and can be controlled.

 

you should really share that bowl with him, it sounds like he needs to chill too

 

Thats the spirit!!

Hopefully being in a good mood rubs off... if not, ah well

 

and me.

 

Yeah, exactly.

Man I wish he would smoke.. he used to. He was the type of person that is GREAT to smoke with but he "doesnt like smoking anymore" and he thinks weed makes people stupid.... blah... blah. I tell him he needs to just smoke a bowl all the time though.


Later.

 

Oh right, I forgot that you are the guru of everything, and have evolved beyond emotion

 

well, make sure he doesn't see any of my stoned posts cuz ummmm, :leaving:

 

Ummmmmmm?

 

huh?

 

So I should allow the emotions of others to guide my own? Does that sound right?

I am not beyond emotion... emotion is a natural response... I choose to use emotion to my benefit by not allowing it to control me.

I choose to be the rubber, not the rubbee..... lol

 

Everybody is a little grumpy sometimes.