Halp. I can't get attracted to women.

Several girls had a crush on me in high school and college and I went on a few dates but it was more obligatory because I had little sexual interest in them, compared to pornography even the most well developped 16 year old girl is androgenous. Now I have a car and a credit card I can go for 18-20 year old women and while most have curves in the right places they no longer have the easy going personality of a 16 year old. You see sometime during the intervening period they turn into complete tarts, manage to dull their positive emotions and learned to be demanding. I am completely put off by them and I now regret not going further with opportunities when I was 16, I can't be botherred to find a woman when they're all like that and if I try to get a 16-17 year old girlfriend I'll look like a creep and technically a pedophile.

In before sexually related insults.

 

Ehh... how old are you?

If you're around your early 20s... that's understandable. Most college girls are complete whores and idiots... but you also seem to be idealizing so called "16 year olds" which are pretty much the same thing as it is.

Why don't you stop judging people based on their age... and just try to find the right girl for you?


If you're older than your 20s... than you might indeed be a pedophile.

 

roflmao,,,, i was gonna say more but ,,,,, i cant

:leaving:

 

Go ahead say what you want. As I was writing that I thought "I'd better stop, I sound angst and whiny", but I decided to post this anyway. I'm 22 by the way and I didn't say I wanted 16-17 year olds I said "I had little sexual interest in them" and "I now regret not going further with opportunities when I was 16". So I really need to define the type of woman I'm looking for so I can play the dating game and I'm probably fixating on 16 year olds because of a memorable experience with one.

 

Also if college girls are whores and idiots, at what age do they stop being whores and idiots?

 

I was just making a point...

You have to decide what kind of woman you like, and then go out and find her. Your problem is that you don't really know what you want.

Hell, I don't really know what I want and find all of these college girls to be ridiculously dull.

 

Lots of guys go for the 16 y old chicks..(youngblood) Try dating one(baby sitting her and her friends) for a while and that might help you realize it's not fun. Or maybye you'll falll in love! (worth a try.) In life nobody fucking cares so you may as well date whoever you want (under 16's is pretty 'camp cousiler' though).

 

Ps You'll make everyone hate you and similtaniously want to be you

 

Maybe I didn't explain myself properly.

16-17 = Attractive personality, androgenous unnattractive bodies.
18-20 = Unnattractive personality, curvacious attractive bodies.

I said I regret not taking opportunities when I was 16 because I was rejecting them in favour of getting an 18-20 year old, but now I can get an 18-20 year old I discover they don't have the same sweet personality as a 16 year old.

 

why the hell woudl i want to babysit a 16 year old

 

Sounds like you're just living in the past with some regrets at the moment. Best advice I can give: get over it, and move on.

And I don't mean that in a harsh way, that's just the best thing for yah. Sooner or later you'll come across someone that does everything for you personally and physically. It's ok not to be attracted to everything walking around with tits.

 

PFFFFFFFF I would NOT want to be that person.

 

The 'guy with the peace sign over the happy face' probably wouldn't want to fuck a bueatiful 16old girl. fine

 

ps At least i can get it up for women my own age. (lay off the fukin porn)

 

????? at 23 years old... I'm all set with unaccompanied minors.

 

???????at 23 years old... I'm all set with unaccomapanied minors." --I don't quite grasp what you're saying. Um the lay off the porn comment I made and about me being able to get it up was directed at utilitarian. WHat are the laws in you're country floyd? Here in canada (if anyone cares) I'm pretty sure it's 14 (that's gettin preettty dam low in my opinion but 'different strokes' I guess). Remember about the 16 y/olds girls, you might be saving them from horrible sex from 16 y/old guy.

 

I didn't know who the porn comment was for, though I assumed not me.

As far as the minor thing, I'm just saying that for me that age difference is far too great. Honestly, even an 18 year old is too young. It's not the solid age difference just the social differences and developmental differences.

As for the horrible sex comment: horrible sex at 16 w/ other 16 year olds is what being 16 is all about! And possibly driving. And the mall.

 

"sex at 16 w/other 16 year olds is what being 16 is about"-- Yeah, tell that to some of the 16 year old girls I've met over the years (lol). Generally I might agree with you. But, and this is a big but, the problem with ideals on sensitive subjects like this is when real life happens and someone falls short of an ideal they can feel like it defines them( as a slut, as a coward as a prude as a nerd ect) I think the ideal can really affect someone negatively. Hey girls, ever feel that somtimes in some relationships it might not pay to be totally candid with you're man about you're sexual past?
Usally everyone laughs along when a guys a 'slut' but a girl is kinda not supposed to be. What would you think of you're 16 y/o guy pal if he was banging a 23 y/o. It would laughter, high fives and all the fucking rest. Acolades!

 

"How the female mind works" That comment is repulsive. Society makes me sad

 

I would think that she was sketchy as fuck! I've actually been in this kind of situation and it was, sketchy as fuck! I guess this is just where you and I differ.