can not everyone cum? i dont think i ever had and my bf asks me to cum on his face but i dnt think i have ?
some people are anorgasmic but they are very very very rare. you probably just havent figured out what exactly turns you on all the way. do you masturbate? the best way to find your first orgasm (for most people) is through self-exploration. if you know what turns you on, then you can let your partner in on the tips and tricks to get you off.. but you have to know yourself first (again, for most people, some people manage tog et their first one thanks to someone else... but its rare)