I am so jealous of all the women

who can get satisfaction out of intercourse. the ones who are lucky enough to get stimulation out of penetratin and can orgasm from it. I am so jealous and envious of you. Sometimes coming to this forum and reading all the experiences just makes me really bitter.

 

i understand, but the energy would be better spent on other things...like perhaps figuring out what you could do to improve the situation? regardless, the love and sex forum is easily avoided if you find it unpleasant.

 

even at work, the women talk about their sex lives. i just sit there silent wishing i had firsthand experience of what it's like to find penetration pleasureable.

i don't have any money to figure out what the problem is. health insurance is too expensive and family planning clinics charge a fee for gyn consultations and testing. it's not cheap.

 

Do you really need to orgasm by means of penetration to enjoy sex? Arn't there alternatives? This is something the ladies could help me out as well. I always feel that I owe the ladie something if she doesn't cum. Even if I use other means to get her off. What do you say?

 

Now Rasberry,there was a LONG thread about this before and you were given plenty of good advice.--are you trying to bait people into doing it again?I don't think you can get any better advice than what was given.This time ,I suggest you just get the problem fixed (however)or live with it.

 

I am just very depressed about this. I have been for the past 3 years about it. I'm very unhappy and don't think I'll ever feel fulfilled unless it changes

 

To achieve orgasm is not a matter of luck.

So get the silly notion out of your head.

Its repeated foreplay that is affective at arousing you that means gentle foreplay ( caressing with his hands, gentle kissing, nibbling, around your erogenous zones ) ....

I have noticed that the only ones that had orgasm the lights were off, what does that mean ?

I think it means women are inhibited by having there bodies exposed.

So have sex in very low light or just moonlight or perhaps candles.

Do eveything possible to make sex better, your health, clean teeth, mouthwash etc.

Being phyically tired or worried is a barrier to good sex I believe, so really if you are worrried about something you need to remove that worry.

If your tired (aren't we all ) you need to be rested and healthy.

I generally aim for the end of the month when women are horniest, so just before you menstruate or just afterwards.

 

its up to you to change it ,, i would think one would actually learn that over a three year period instead of just thinking that by whining n crying n complaining and being jealous will alter it somehow magically,,,,,..... so unless you enjoy the misery you are creating yourself by being unhappy n being the victim it takes you taking some sort of action to alter it...


oh scratcho this is #3

 

@Rasberry
i dont think you will ever enjoy it when you feel like you Need to enjoy it.

and i hope you do realize that its a bit silly to let your hapiness depend on it.