might be bi

Discussion in 'Masturbation' started by mrwankalot, Dec 26, 2007.

  1. mrwankalot

    mrwankalot Member

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    ok so im a 17 year old guy and i guess im bi curious. i dont fancy guys but i get turned on by seeing hard dicks. i was first introduced to masturbation by a friend at the age off 11 and ive been crazy about it since. after i had started both me and my friend found it easy to talk about mastyrbation with each other and we soon became masturbation buddies. we hadnt planned to masturbate together it just happened because he was staying at house and there was a film on tv with lots of sex scenes in, and us being horny kids we had to have a wank. to start with a was on the top bunk and he on the bottom while we wanked over what was on the tv. we had a fantasy of giving this hot girl from school a dp and we decided that in order for this to hapen we had to be comfortable being naked around each other. so in later masturbation sessions we started getting naked together and masturbating on the same bed. we soon became comfortable with this and began doing it regularly. we never helped each other out in our sessions we just used to eitha watch something that turned us on or talked about how hot out favourite girl was while we jacked off. and then we used to watch each other cum sometimes. the as time went on we got more comfortable we started doing more things and it wasnt long before we wer settin up virtual pussys and stuff like that. when we wer doing stuff like this our dicks often touched but we neva played with each other or anything like that. on a few occasions we both had a go at the virtual pussy/ass as the same time so our dicks wer pushed against each others and we both came in ther so we had each others cum on our dicks.

    we did all these things together but neitha of us ever considered anything we wer doing to be 'gay' because all we wer ever doing was fantasizing about us having a 3sum with a girl.

    anyway about 3 years have passed since those sessions finished and about 1 1/2 years ago i discovered anal masturbation.

    i have always liked the idea of dps and have been involved in 2 and i watch many dp porn movies.

    as consiquence to all the above i have begun to associate a hard cock with sex and/or masturbation

    i dont fantasize about men but everytime i see a hard cock i associate that with sex and/or masturbation so i get hard too. this means that if i watch a gay porn movie i get hard even tho i dont like the idea of what is going on in it.

    this is all kind of wierd for me because i am straight but yet i get hard over guys. it is also sometimes quite inconvinient. it usually only happens if the dick i see is hard but when ur is countrys where it is the norm to shower naked before swimming and the showers are full of naked men. im sure u can see why this could be a problem!

    if anyone out there has similar issues or ways to solve it, replys wud be greatly apprieted

    happy masterbating
     
  2. Hiram Joseph Yates

    Hiram Joseph Yates Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    why do you care if you are bisexual? If you like jacking off with a man, so what? My advice is quit worrying. If you get hard taking a shower before swimming, walk out of the shower or put on your bathing suit. If you have a jack buddy again, put your dicks together and have one of you wank them off. If you like it, you're cured.
     
  3. mrwankalot

    mrwankalot Member

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    sorry but this whole thing is kinda wierd and im sure ther are other guys out there who have or have had a similar problem
     
  4. PineMan

    PineMan Senior Member

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    There's no 'might be bi' about it. Everyone is bi. The only thing that changes from person to person is where they fall on the bi scale.

    If it were just a case of being Gay or being Straight, all Gays would be the stereotype effeminate mincers, but as we are all aware this is by no means the case.

    Everyone has male & female hormones, with varying balances, which affect the individual sexuality. However, during puberty & adolescence these hormones go into hyper-drive, with the balance going all over the place. This is the reason that early teens, in particular, experience such strong homosexual feelings & become so confused by the whole thing.

    Until your hormones finally settle down to your final balance - and even after they do - you should simply accept what your body tells you about where your preferences lie.

    Personally I rate myself as being about 75% straight, and about 25% gay, which enable me to enjoy physical sex with other men, but I feel I could only get romantic with a woman.

    On the whole, I would rate those that class themselves as being totally 'straight' as being only 90% - 95% straight as, even though they would rarely admit it, they will still have self doubts in those times they suddenly find themselves inexplicably sexually attracted to their own gender. While they may never act on these attractions, the innate desire to do so still remains.
     
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