Am I Any Less Of A Person For Being Gay

*hugs* Keep ya head up hun....

 

Whatever pal. Just be thankful in this day and age it gets a lot more accepted than it used to.


On a side note me and my wife love going to the local gay bar in town. Those motherfuc...Oh wait fatherfuckers might be a little bit more politicaly correct anyway they are the most partying don't give a shit people I've ever met. I have a good time everytime I go there. Heh it's also the only place I can get someone to buy me a drink.

 

You, Lodog, you!

 

no actually. i think it makes you more of a person for having the courage to admit that in the first place. go with whatever you feel man, and fuck anyone who tells you otherwise. life isnt about what OTHER people think about you. YOUR life is all about YOU! remember that!

 

i'm glad you changed your mind about you hating your life and killingyourself

 

sure isnt gay the new in thing? like skateboards and mc hammer

 

its not about what sex of person you like, its about who you fancy. Everyone has the potentiol to fancy any one regardless of sex, race, name, age, height. Its all down to who you fancy. Who needs to name it man.

 

lol. sorry, but thats funny. not tryna be insulting

 

A mother should love her child unconditionally. I can understand your mom Dopesickkid being maybe a lil' disappointed, lets face it...who dreams of their child growin' up to be gay? BUT other people have said it here, it's all about YOU. You have to live with YOU, YOU have to make decisions for YOU, YOU have to be happy with who YOU are. YOU have a whole lifetime to live with YOU. Be happy about who YOU are and enjoy YOUR life.

Okay, now here is my Ned Flanders: I would sit your mom or both your parents down and tell them 1. You love them 2. It really hurts you to hear your own mother say she thinks your less of a person for bein' gay. 3. Tell your mom that you want her to be able to look at you and see who you are as a person, how you treat her, that is how she should be judgin' you, the way you treat her. If you respect your mom and talk to her with the love and respect a mom should have maybe she will see past all the other stuff and just look at YOU for YOU.
Does any of this make sense?

I am a mother and I love my boys unconditionally. I would want them to be happy with their life and who they are. Granted they haven't told me they are gay, it could happen, but even if they did I might need a lil' time acceptin' it but as long as they are livin' under my roof, respectin' me and their father, (that goes both ways, I have respect for them too), Obeyin' the rules of the house, hey I do have some boundries, than we WOULD find a way to work and make peace with their sexual information.

Thats just my opinion.

 

Here is a BIG peanut smooch>MMWWWAAAAHHHH!!!!!

 

awwww. thats so sweet. lotta love in this thread

 

I think you are a beautiful person too. I admire you for being able to come to the threads and talk about this with us. You have to be able to talk to someone about they way you feel.

 

You know I was just sitting here thinking about all this and I had another idea. I could of pm'd you with it Dopesickkid but this might be worth other's hearing it too if it applies.

I don't know how long your Mom has known this information about you. Maybe your Mom doesn't know what to do with this information or how to accept it. If you really want your Mom to love you and accept you for who you are why not suggest going to counseling? Maybe you both can find a way to deal with this together. If you show your Mom how much this means to you than maybe she will have more respect for you as an individual.

Just a thought

 

no hun your not a lesser person for being bi. you just like men andwomen. your keeping your options open. and your mother should respect you being bi and should take pride in her son that has such an open mind. i know when i tole my mom i was bi all she said is as long as no bi, gay, or lesbian trys to convince her to be gay she is perfectly fine with it. so any way Just give your ma a while to think on ti and let her get used to the idea and maybe you two should sit down and talk and see why she thinks your a lesser person for being open about your sexuality. good luck .

 

You will to admit it makes you more of a person than they are.

 

Nope, not at all are you less of a person.


(Of course I'd say that, I like girls & boys too)

Maybe she doesn't accept you, that hurts, but keep your head up.

Good luck,
Katie.

 

DSK, you're really stretching to keep the gimmick interesting.

 

"Am I Any Less Of A Person For Being Gay"

My answer to you:

Am I any less of a person for being hetero?

 

I can't believe it is ten years since I was 18.
Ive found in life that people seem to accept things they don't like in the first instance when you give them time.
live your life in a way that will make your parents proud, then in time when they realise that your serious about your sexuality what ever that entails, they'll come to accept it.
S