non-sexual sexy stuff:

Didn't really know how to describe this. I'm not talking about fetishes really, just those little things that get you going but aren't exactly sex.

e.g. I love when someone has their mouth near my ear. Just feeling someone's breath there really gets me going. I've heard other guys say the same thing, and no-one I've done it on has ever complained. Just wondering if there's any more "sweet spots" I can try out.

Sorry if this is gross.

 

back massages can be non sexual and really sexy....so can glasses...hot breath deffinatley... mud wrestling?...does that count as sexual?

ooo, and heated cat fights..so long no ones really getting all that hurt...

 

glasses... that's interesting.

My boyfriend begs me to wear my glasses... I used to hate them, but because he thinks they are so sexy, I'm slowly beginning to accept them..

i thought it was just him..

 

haha thats weird...this guy i hooked up with over the summer saw me with glasses cus i had to get more contacts shipped to me, and he loved them...even when i got my contacts he told me not to wear them...but i just dont get how glasse can b sexy? lol i mean, u go to do stuff and u gotta take em off anyway lol and then u cant see, and idk lol

but anyway lol i like being rubbed, anywhere, lightly with the tips of fingers, so it sorta tickles...that is so nice for me...

 

The only way I can go to sleep quick is if someone strokes my head untill I fall asleep. Weird but it always works and winds up with great morning sex the next day

 

glasses-especially horn rimmed- can be super hot on girls. I don't know what it is. I think its one of those things you're not used to seeing, and it makes them look hot in that smart nerdy way.


I like when people run their fingers through my hair. I think thats a turnon.

Peace

Oh, yeah, and scarves on girls

 

I get turned on by almost everything women do. The way they breath, their scent ( both artificial and natural), some of their expressions which is a newly aquired turn on, and the way they walk just to name a few.



yes i know i am wierd.......but if those are wierd then i like being wierd!!!!!!!


haha ah ah aha hahaha......

 

I love a guy who's good with his hands


I love it when they clean, fix things, or play an instrument...Usefulness, now that is tasty!

 

yeah, I know a few people that are fans of the 'sexy librarian' glasses look...personally i prefer my contacts, but hey.

sexy non sex stuff - if anyone kisses my neck or even touches it - ooh, it's fanstastic.
I also really like it when you are walking with a guy and he really lightly puts his hand in the small of your back, when a person you are with kisses the top of your head and when you are holding hands with someone and they rub your palm with their thumb...little signs of affection like that are, i think, lovely.

and people that show signs of intelligence and/or a sense of humour...connecting on that level can really make me want to connect on, ah, other levels (dear oh dear, i'm such a nerd )

 

Yeah, hands can be so sexy, I agree.

I have a friend, who has beautiful hands and arms and it's amazing to watch him playing piano/guitar/doing whatever with his hands, coz it's just so... HOT.

 

soft touching and carresssing anywhere is amazing

 

Oh ya,

i love it when my boyfriend plays with my hair. I find it so sexy that a 190 cm ex lawyer indulges himself with playing with my hair.

 

There's something sexy in a comforting sort of way about a proper blokey bloke being sensitive and caring towards you. When the guy is Sweet And Sensitive all the time it's ok, but when you know he's just being gentle with you it's fucking beautiful.

 

bare feet outdoors. Even if a woman is fully clothed (sometimes I even prefer it if they are fully clothed, with long jeans or something that end just above the foot), I love to see the fact they are outdoors with barefeet.. drives me WILD LOL

 

Interesting thing there.. my boyfriend also thinks that clothes can make a woman sexier than bare naked. Of course the rule doesn't apply in bed but you get my point.

 

exactly! something about it just melts me.

 

rubbing my tummy makes me fell all warm and fuzzy, or just being caressed with a loving touch. if all else fails nice long lower back rub .

 

i officially love this thread...

non sexual sexy stuff - eye contact games.. look, look away, walking around a room full of people doing this is the most fun ever (almost) . standing close to me, and that thing when you girls tilt your head to ask a question... theres a short list.

 

oh yes... yes it is