what do you think?

i wrote this letter to my ex who i am now friends with, but does sound too bitchy and accusational?


Your not always wrong. You are a good person and I know you are. Your funny, smart, good looking. friendly, everything people want in a person. You do need to show that you care more though. Not just with me but with everyone. Eveyone wants to know that they are cared about. Maybe thats why I havent given up on you, because I do care about you immensely. I know you have it in you because at one time, I know you cared about me. But, it really hurts that you havent called me to see how im doing . I thought we were much better friends than that.

So yeah I love you and I wont stop being there for you, no matter what because thats what friends do. And I hope you call me soon or come down with Rob. I would really like to see you.

 

Ehh... this kind from an ex-girlfriend would probably make me laugh, but I'm just that kind of guy.

It doesn't sound bitchy at all though.

 

why would you laugh?

 

yeah it doesn't sound bitchy

 

Because I's an odd fellow.

 

for the record im not a desperate person i just read that and without knowing anything about our relationship it sounds pathetic and like im desperately trying to get him back. I just had a medical procedure that he played a part in so thats why im upset he hasnt called. he has told me before he dosent really like ot expres himself though. thought id clear that up a bit though.

 

Why would you date a person who doesn't like to express himself?

 

because when we were together he did and we didnt have much of a problem. its just now. i guess im a sucker for love.

 

Watch out.

Love can be a destructive addiction.

 

oh im learning the hard way. although im pretty over him, and i really do only see him as a friend.

 

Hmmmm a medical procedure that he played a part in …I wonder what that could be :H (short of donating an organ or a matching blood type)


hotwater

 

heh yeahhhh :/

 

I don't believe in friends after relationships but thats ok.

 

if you were friends besides being boyfriend/girlfriend then it is perfectly possible.. maybe be hard but the key is to start over fresh in the friendly relationship without letting the bitterness of the past inflence you. and well there's more to this but I'm in no state of being able to type right

 

It is grea to do what you have done, I think after relationship you should be friends because you had some things together and you shouldnt lose them just because you broked up.... but if he hadn't call you it meens that he don't thinkin that way..... that is his problem.... if he call you, be friends but if he doesn't let him. He is not the only person you can have as friend.
peace love and harmony

 

Why not?