Could someone give me a free reading?

Hi, Im new to this site and am actually trying to do an astrology chart to find out when we will finally conceive a child. Im having problems with it but have always wondered what a psychic would tell me about my life or my future.

So now for the fun part. Im 20 years old my husband Ryan is 22. We have been together since June 2005 and been married since September 2006. We have been trying to conceive a child for over a year now. I've been doing fertility charts and trying to pin point ovulation and things such as that but have found that my cycles are very unpredictable and irregular. I've been to a doctor who can only give me medication and Im starting Clomid tomorrow. This will be my first cycle on it but Im worried about how or if it will work for us. I would love to conceive naturally but right now I don't feel it.

I've always considered myself very in tune with my body and even strangely have a knack at predicting things for friends, I will dream about someone becoming pregnant and then they do and for friends that are pregnant I can usually predict the gender well before its obvious by ultrasound. I've done this for at least 6 friends now and every time have been right. For some reason I just cant figure anything out for myself. I've even had dreams of me becoming pregnant but nothing has happened.

Please if anyone can help me, Im becoming desperate. I know Im young but a family is my only want in life and I hate the thought that it will never happen for me !

 

The first feeling that comes to me from you is: You need to relax. Your note is laced with tension. You say you're becoming desperate--this is a sign of fear, and fear works against you.

You're 20 years old? My wife had our youngest when she was 37. Now she's 45, and she's still in good enough shape to have a baby, if that were our goal. So what's your hurry? I'm not suggesting it might take that long, Fairy_girl, I'm just trying to help you get some perspective in order to help you relax about this issue. If it doesn't happen right away, life can still be fun and worthwhile.

You have no other want in life except a family? How do you pass the time?

I'm not telling you these things to be difficult. I see a baby in your future--okay? The thing is that everything happens for a reason, and what the spirits are telling me about you is that, for your spiritual path in this life right now, you need to relax and let go of this obsession. Sure, you can keep doing the charting and the fertility stuff, but think about some other things for a while. There is a reason...you have other reasons for living than having a family, and this is the time to start getting an inkling of those reasons.

Well after all, you are psychic, aren't you? What's with that, Fairy_girl?

 

can i get a reading (sorry if its off topic)

 

Everyone has been telling me to relax and its really funny that you say that to be honest. Ive been trying so hard to find other things to do but being stuck in the house with no car and no job its beginning to overcome me. I had my chart looked at too and from what they have told me children are in my favor its just going to take work to get them so its kinda like this all cancels out. One thing say relax about it but the other says that in order to have children I'm going to have to do all I can which right now is going to be going down the medical route.

I'm curious about what you say about the psychic thing? I've always felt myself gifted in the area of at least knowing some things before they happen and I've always had very strong feelings of dejavu and other things like that but do I really have some type of psychic........i don't know, for lack of better word, vibe? I would think its really neat if other people can see that in me.

Thank you so much for taking the time for me.

 

hhhmmmmm Hey fairy girl.

Two things come to mind,
Firstly, whether you want to put it in psychic terms or medical terms, high stress will not help you to conceive.
Emotional and mental stress, puts the body in a state of shock, and your body does not function as it is meant to. This often happens to women, they decide to want to fall pregnant and when it doesn't happen they panic, then it becomes even more difficult.

In a spiritual sense, a birth will occur when it is meant to, I too see you with a little girl, she's very small and has a little pixie face, she's very gorgeous.
But sweetheart, there's things to be done first. It is understandable that you wish for a child, its a perfectly natural wish for a woman and i too have friends that want a baby in life more than anything else.

But i see you having problems if you push this issue too hard, it can put great strain on relationships.
I feel that time is needed for you to get to know yourself a little better, to equip yourself for a baby.
Perhaps put your energy and enthusiasm to have a child, into preparing for a child.
Have you tried to get a little part time work, to perhaps save for a vehicle or to have money when a baby arrives.

There is one i've learnt in all my spiritual travels, is that you bring into your world what you wish. Your thoughts are powerful, ask your angels/guides to assist you with your dream and in the mean time, you need to become proactive in getting yourself ready.
You'll be a wonderful mum i'm sure, but I also see baby-blues around you, so just be careful in that regards and know that there's always support out there when you need it.

I can see your a feeling down and a little depressed at the moment, you're waiting for something that isn't happening for you, and you dont know what to do in the mean time, almost like you're bored.
Putting your wasted worry energy into work/volunteer work/exercise etc, will channel that worry out of your system and allow for things to move forward.

Hope this helps a little
Love & Light
Lexi

 

I know, I see that it's a tricky balance. You need to follow the medical advice and at the same time avoid becoming obsessed with it--Fairy_girl, you're not quite ready to see this, but this is an exercise in spiritual growth. LOL The spirits are using this situation to help you develop the ability to strive toward a goal without obsessing over it.

Yes, I know that feeling very well. Obviously you're psychic, based on what you say about your dreams--and LOL very interesting that your psychic ability seems to revolve around your personal area of concern--pregnancy. LOL There's much more to the psychic world than predicting pregnancies--and yet, predicting pregnancies is not a talent to be lightly dismissed. Where would you like this talent to take you?

Someday you'll pass the favor on to others, dear.

 

So true, Lexi. Over and over I hear the story of a woman who is "desperate" to conceive, then finally gives up. She and her husband adopt a child--and then before you can say "pass the cigars," she's pregnant. What happened? Every one of these women (and their husbands) finally gave up the obsession and just relaxed.

 

Start a new thread with your request, psychodelic, and I'll see what the spirits tell me about you--fair enough?

 

You have both helped me so much. I really appreciate it.

I started my first round of Clomid today and Ive decided to be calm this cycle and not stress if it doesn't work right away.

We are going to be getting another car with out tax money in a few months and then from there I do plan to get a job as soon as possible. I think that will help beyond ways imaginable for everything.

Lexi its funny you say a little girl because we are totally prepared for a boy. I lost my son well into my pregnancy last year and we were totally prepared for him, his nursery is finished, we have diapers and clothes, and everything you can imagine for a little boy so the fact that I'm going to have a girl (which is what I have always felt I would have) is not much of a shock to me.

Zengizmo, Ive been thinking since you said that last night where I really want to go with the talent that I have and to be honest I'm not really sure. I would love to help others, to be able to tell others what I cant tell about myself is a great gift and I hate for it to go unused. I'm not sure where to start. Obviously I cant just talk to you and tell you what your children are. I get strong feelings about people when they wonder what they are having and I always make my guess in my head and just for fun but I don't know how to channel that feeling and its something I would be interested in trying to do but have no idea where to start.

 

I was premature, Fairy_girl. You're doing fine as you are. Your plans to get a car and a job are perfect. The psychic talents will work their way into your life at the appointed time, so there's no need to concern yourself right now. Just do what you want for now, and gradually the pieces will all fall into place.