so i just transfered to a new school and ive never had any thoughts about being gay before. Theres a guy in one of my classes who i became friends with and has started flirting with me recently, and just this past week i realized that i have a crush on him and that i think he's pretty cute =P I really dont want anyone to know how i feel about him because im sure people will make fun of me for being gay (-.-) but i really feel like i should have a relationship with him. its gets even more complicated though because i really like this girl that i went out with before too and weve been talking alot recently and are going to hang out this weekend and see a movie. im really confused because i really like both of them and i think i might tell her this weekend how i feel about this guy. uh.. right. so i have no idea what to do x.x because i really like this guy and the girl.. yeah.. idk. i just needed to talk about this somewhere =P anyone want to discuss? offer me some advice or something? comforting words? this is the first time i have ever had feelings for a guy but i dont want everyone to think im gay >.<
hey first of all, thanks for sharing your thoughts, its not the easiest thing to open up to anyones comments. so, here is what i think. i know its a cliche, but follow what your heart wants, if you feel your heart wants the guy, then go for it, life is too short to be worrying about what other people think of you. but i know all too well that it is easier said then done. on the other hand, if your heart wants the girl, then be with her. really think about how you see them, how you are with them, what kind of people they both are, which one is better suited to you? which person will you make, and which one will make you, happiest? i really hope that you find what you are looking for, and that this post helped a tiny bit if you need any more help, just ask. blessings xxx xx x
=) thanks. im pretty glad i found this forum, i really just felt like i needed to say it to someone without worrying about it =P
i'm in the exact same situation... i know this sounds difficult but really the thing to do is act upon what feels right. just be totally 100% honest with yourself and you'll know what you want.
i was going to talk to him today after school before the buses got there but i couldnt find him >.< so now im stuck not being able to contact him over winter break..
Don't worry about what other people will think. Who cares? It goes back to the old saying "if I had known then what I know now"...been there, done that. Just do what feels right for you. Feel comfortable enough to know that you love a person, not a gender.
mmmmmmmmmm highschool confusion over sexuality I remember it all too well, came out bisexual, got shanked a few days later.
