Need help with strange sex problem

i have a strange problem, its like, i'm having sex with my girl or whatever

but she says it hurts her too much, and its not like i have a gigantic dick or anything but her pussy is really tight, she was a virgin or whatever i guess

but this is like the third time i've had sex with her..actually the 4th and it still hurts her like...last time she just stopped me cause it was hurting her too much

shouldn't it have stretched out by now or something

its just that her muscle has to adjust to my dick size or something right?

and another problem is condoms keep breaking on me..its really weird, last time i went through 3 condoms...all of which broke..ripped, the condoms fitted, but i think its just that her pussy is so tight that the condom just rips every couple of times i insert or something

any advice please

 

for some women it is painful to have sex ​

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the condition is called vaginismus. with some patience and lots of lube it can get enjoyable for her.

 

thanks astrobreaux that was really helpful

 

not a problem. i've been in your position. my last g/f had it bad. with patience and time you can get around it. in some cases it eventually stops, but it may be a lifetime thing. there are also many other intimate alternatives to explore.