How do you deal with people talking about you, but you are not around to do anything about it? It feels like a few lies told by someone can change alot of peoples opnion about me. Whereas if I were around to speak to that person or people directly, maybe it could be sorted. But they don't allow that to happen.
I don't give a shit what people think about me. If the peoples' opinions were changed about you so easily, maybe they weren't worth having in your life in the first place.
Sadly this is not an uncommon event. Most people who wish to undermine another will do so out of your sight. First I would say if the people this person is going to are really people who know you, then it should not matter. Second make a point to confron the person and those they spoke to about you. Lastly, I never let the voices of others dictate who I am and never do what others say about me affect what my true freinds believe of me.
I just wish people would come and speak to me directly if they are having a problem. Rather than gossiping and snide remarks. It is something I have never done. If I had a problem with someone, I would either keep it to myself or speak to them directly.
this happens all the freaking time, if you figure out how to deal with it let me know, usually i just club them on the back of the head but if you don't have a friend that'll help you dispose of the body you may want to take another approach
I'm quite used to people talking about me. Mainly catty women. It hurts, I can't say it doesn't bother me, because it most definitely does.
yeah, I used to dwell on what people said/believed about me. It got to the point where I went along with the rumors..."Yeah, I'm 5 years pregnant" and "I know, I am a wicked huge slut-hell, I even slept with your boyfriend!" and "No, I'm not psychotic, I've only killed 3 people." Now, people have a new sense of respect for me because I don't care. They know I don't care and I go along with everything they say! The best one is the girl that was talking to me about me and didn't know I was me (did that make sense?!). She was upset that I was seeing the guy she liked...it was so much fun ridiculing myself!
that's so freaking true i always spin things people say cause i just don't care, like my friends make mama jokes all the time and i spin them on them...not the same thing but similar... often i out creep people, i push things so far they just shut up and look at the ground
I'm in Red's school. Your real friends will become pretty apparent during all this. You don't have to cut everyone else off, just be aware of who your real friends are.
Some people just enjoy spreading mean gossips... But you can prove them wrong later... You can be more convincing than the liars.
