Your missing the point fitzy. Having a Boston accent in Boston isn't the way to attract attention. Having a Boston accent in Prauge is the way to attract attention.
aside from getting a man and making male friends id say most of the other times i get negative reactions because of how i look. some guys and girls are intimidated by me which can kinda suck. some people treat me with resentment when ive done nothing to deserve it. and sometimes people think because im pretty that i wont be very smart, which is annoying because i am smart. for the first half of the year doing this smart kids thing this year people wouldn't take me seriously, they acted like it was some joke that i was there, which was very irritating, do i have to be ugly to be smart or something? but anyway, i wouldnt change how i look to be prettier or uglier cos it's me. i like me. and i can't think of any other way id want to be.
I don't think looks are that important. Well not to me anyways I'm not particularly attractive if you look at me, but I get lots of attention from both sexes. I know when I go into a room I stand out most, and people are most interested in me, because of my sunny and funny personality. I have friends who are way prettier than me, but I still somehow get more attention.. I still stand firm that it's all about how you perceive yourself. If you think you're ugly, and you think that looks are really important, then people aren't going to notice much. But if you shine and think you're gorgeous inside and out (even if you're not), then people will want to know you. The fact is looks ARE important - but only to yourself. It's all about confidence.
lol, nice dream. good looks means more money, more opportunities, better treatment, more verything. bottom line. the negative side-way harder to find a dude that LIKES you. but pft. no hot person is gonna wish to be uglier because, boohoo, they arent taken seriously and guys dont see them for who they reaaally are. thats a lie. any ugly person would love to be in that position.
It's hard being good looking. But Van Gogh is right, nobody beautiful would ever trade places with someone who fell off the ugly tree.
Don't you guy's think by saying uglier that it shows a complete lack of compassion? So if you don't meet the perfect standard you're ugly??? 'm not meaning to be a negative nancy but I just don't think it's right to compare everyone else as ugly. I mean I am sure there are people reading this and its got to kill their ego. The more annoying thing is its the "beautiful" people saying that they are attractive and they wouldn't want to be uglier...well no shit. I'm sure someones going to give me grief but who are we to say how beautiful someone is, I mean it's in the eye of the beholder. I'm not meaning to get off topic...I just think that the RT is often used to beat down the people we don't find attractive. I mean what kind of bullshit thread is would you date a fat person or would a fat person date you...get off your damn high horse (this isn't everyone so if it doesn't apply to you don't be bothered by this). Aside from that the only thing I would change is to lose some weight...I always hear if I was skinny I would be the best looking out of my brothers. Sometimes thats annoying to hear though. I would say that I am the most down to earth too.
or maybe all the ugly and fat people should go get a farm somewhere, where they can all appreciate eachothers awesome personalities, and not have to worry about what they look like. besides, standing next to an uglier person would make you look less ugly... unless you're both equally ugly. then you can start an ugly people only club. yeahhh YOU SHOW EM'! dont let any good looking people in.. they'll feel left out.. they'll soon know how it feels to be judged by looks. lol
Outside of the highschool pimplefest I've never had any issues. I wouldn't want to be "pretty", that attracts the wrong crowd and leads to improper assumptions... I suppose I'm content right here, as anyone should be.
people judge me based on the way i look all the time alot of people i've met still have a highschool mentality no matter how old they are i got a job in a metal bar, i don't look "metal"...people judge me, then they find out how hardcore i am and it changes :H it doesn't matter how "pretty" i am, the crazy in my head always shines through
the people who are getting offended can go fuck yourselves. i never asked if you would PREFER to be uglier, i asked if you thought you would be treated differently. it's just a question. i tried to make this as non-offensive as i could.
i can kind of relate to this, and i guess i thought it was the norm. people actually tell me that they think i am a bitch until they get to know me. i dont understand this. i am a nice person, i dont snob people off, and i talk to EVERYONE. but people still see me as a bitch. people ALWAYS assume i am dumb.
I sometimes wish I looked a bit older at work, I think that sometimes I am taken as a kid when I have an adults job. I don't really fit in to the macho scene either But then again: my girlfriend says that girls act more sexually towards me when they talk to me than most, and thats ok
by the way, now I sobered up, my first post WAS puposedly dramatic and boohoo. the second post was me genuinely discovering how clever I was to make a point probably no one will get with not replying seriously to this thread
if your good looking, then you get alot of free things, and extra attention, but you also get taken as a person who is going through life based on your looks, and you are underestimated constantly.
And nobody respects my opinions on agronomy policies. Everyones just like 'shake it bitch!' And it hurts. I have a hard time taking this thread seriously.