What does it feel like for a women to have an ORGASM ?

I think that the biggest issue on this thread (as Lady of the Freaks mentioned) is that it's such an individual experience, you're not going to get the exact same answer twice.

My imagination can only stretch so far, and not far enough to really get what it's like to have such a pleasurable part of myself inside someone else! Just as you, as a man, can't imagine the sensation of having a clit or vagina, LOL.

All the words used so far have been accurate, from my experience - throbbing, clenching . . . I usually get the undeniable urge to squeeze right before it hits, and then those glorious contractions leave me almost senseless while they last. A woman's orgasm, aside from the physical differences, is probably a lot like a man's as far as the way you feel during the throes of it. Kind of an involuntary seizure, LOL.

I, for one, have never gotten completely drenched with sweat like you're describing. Hot and sweaty, yes, but not abnormally so. Then again, I haven't had a 9 hour sexathon like the one described above!

Was that any help at all??
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BeccaAnn,

Thanks for replying, as very few have, I guess it is difficult to describe what it is like to have an orgasm when I think of it (sorry to all you women out there) well it sounds like you may have had what I once experience perhaps I was fortunate to have experienced what I did maybe what we ( that girl many moons ago ) experienced was a one off, it certainly feels like it now.

I find it so frustrating that I cannot reproduce it again,I guess its rare that you "connect" with certain people for some unknow reason, sadly I don't think it will ever happen again.

I new at the time it was special, and that i would probably never experience it again.

Thanks again,

GB.

 

Yes it was, I basically wanted to find out whether what I experienced was rare or whether quite a few have had the same experience or not.

Ok thanks once again for your reply.

I felt I needed to give a better reply than I originally did.

ty,

GB.

 

"Edging" will bring you to the most powerful orgasm you ever had. If you get "in the zone", your penis will tingle so much that it feels like the next time you touch it, it will explode. You are at a continual state of near orgasm, on the edge of ejaculating. When you do, the orgasm will be deep and powerful.

 

Hmmm. OK ty.

 

I'm just going back over some of these posts that I missed.

Well I find "tickleishness" an interesting phenomenon, because both men and women experience the same thing while having sex, this can sometimes be difficult to communicate to your partner.

I believe if you can get through this period of "tickleishness" to the otherside you will then find that the foreplay is more affective because you don't feel like your being tickled any more, it then becomes arousing as long as your technique is effective and prolonged.

So keep the foreplay going but don't become fixated on area's that are extra sensitive like the clitoris, clitoral hood and the mans corona and scrotum, until you are over the tickleish sensation, then and only then can you pay those areas more attention.

 

I usually get the undeniable urge to squeeze right before it hits, and then those glorious contractions leave me almost senseless while they last.

" ... undeniable urge to squeeze right before it hits ..."

This undeniable urge to squeeze what do you mean by this ?

Are you meaning you have control over whether you can orgasm or is it a slightly fearful moment before finally letting go ?

I read something about this awhile back ...

TBC.

 

Another thing I would like to know is - how far can the penis penetrate ? - what I noticed is my penis felt like it was gripped quite strongly by the keggle muscles, something I noticed at the time is the "head" of my cock seemed to be thru and into a cavity, or this is how it felt at the time.

My understanding is a mans penis cannot penetrate any further than the beginning of the cervix, so why did I "feel" like my cock was in some cavity that had ballooned out ?

 

Let's see . . . the squeezing just seems to enhance the feeling for me, giving me a push over the edge - almost as a precursor to the muscular spasms afterward. Wow, it's odd to talk about it in such an analytical way! LOL

As for that 'ballooning' feeling, you definitely aren't past the cervix as that is, like you said, impossible. A woman doesn't have much sensation once you get a few inches deep. You're probably feeling the squeeze of the kegle muscles and then the looser muscles above them make it feel like an open space in comparison.

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Sorry about the reply, I'm so tired tonight I'll re-right it when I'm feeling better.

 

your whole body just clenches up and tingles, it feels like electrivity is pulsing through your whole body.

 

I agree, it is a fascinating topic. I've also read that men's brains are programmed to respond to a woman's hip-to-waist ratio to help pick a 'mate' who's body would be favorable for childbearing.

Conversely, women respond to different types of men depending on their monthly cycle. When a woman is ovulating, she tends to be more attracted to bigger, more masculine men as a primal desire for a 'protective' mate with good, healthy genes.

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I read that women as they get older they have less estrogen and more testosterone, which makes them "hornier", so perhaps that is the reason for that, or perhaps its something else ?

I think there are lots of things that we find attractive in a potential mate, body type, facial attractivness is a big one, as is a persons skin, their personality, will they "hang around" to raise the children, some partners are great lovers but hopeless providers, and vice versa, great providers but hopeless lovers.

 

These posts are getting better, I must say for a guy its very interesting to hear what it is like or what women experience at that precise moment prior and during orgasm.

I noticed that the extreme amount of sweat that one experiences must have something to do with the release of a natural chemical in the body or perhaps a reaction to the heart beating so fast, or maybe even both ?

The amount of sweat that is generated is quite amazing, I remember in my own case skimming the water off her back and it splashing on my face, you can imagine the bewildered look on my dial when that happened.

 

Oh, I love it when my guy gets sweaty... everything has a musky scent, the slipping and sliding, sweat drips from his brow onto mine, his huge body just thrusting against me with all of his might....

 

... just wait till "you" "and" your boyfriend are sweating (dripping) with sweat, makes it fun to slide up and down on each other !! he he he :sweatdrop

 

haha, he's more than twice my weight, so he sweats enough for the both of us!!

 

I honestly couldn't answer that without researching - my sex drive (at almost 24 years old) is higher than my husband's (who is 27).

I honestly think, though, that sex is more to me than it is to him - for me it has a lot more to do with the intimacy of the act, not just 'getting off'. It's more than that for him as well, but I think as a woman it has a much deeper meaning.

I think there's also a psychological difference in the WAY women and men have sex. As a woman, I have to (literally and figuratively) open myself up and let another person (who is both bigger and stronger) inside my body.

Women do lose estrogen as they grow older. If that means more "horniness" for me, I feel sorry for my husband in the future!

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I would still like to know if a women has had a similar experience to me, surely there must be one that had an intense orgasm of the same intensity ?

I have heard of case studies so there must be women around they have had a really intense orgasms ...

 

Chicks may get hornier as they get older...but I heard that they get gay...