Can you find it already? (question mainly for the guys)

I have been wondering for a while .. I even asked my female friends if they experience the same situation and they are clueless as well.
Here it goes...

I am sure you've been in that situation .. when the guy is ready to penetrate you, most do some "scouting" with their penis (so far nothing weird) to find the entrance and probably get some lubrication.. but then here it comes.. they start hitting way to high (not the clitoral area but right under it) and pushing/rubbing against it... then go "scouting" again.

Are they just trying to find the entrance or is it a tease? Cause it is not really exciting ... it just feels awkward and makes me wonder if my pussy is in the wrong place.

.. are there other girls that have been wondering about that as well?
.. SO what is it guys? Scouting or teasing?

 

Send me a picture of your vulva and I will let you know

However, maybe you do not get wet enough for your bf to slide in. You could help by fondling his cock first and then guiding it in.

 

This may seem like a silly question, but have you been fully aroused at the tmie, or have you simply agreed to have sex to please your partner?

The reason for this question is that I have found that when women get aroused the labia minora swell up so much that they form an outer rose that is impossible to miss accidentally.

However, when I have sex I usually like to get the woman wel & truly stimulated before penetration by making full length passes of the underside of my penis & the glans along the clitoris until the point at which I can't restrain myself any more & have to complete the penetration, or until the woman has the similar feeling & moves her hips fractionally, thus forcing the penetration herself.

On the whole I have found this to be appreciated part of foreplay, but there have also been those who don't like to waste time & prefer a direct penetration instead - even then, some prefer hard & fast & others prefer slow & gentle.

There's no rule book as to what is the best approach - it's all a matter of communication. It could well be thawt this boyfrien of yours is also a virgin, and as such totally ignorant as to how best to penetrate. If you don't feel comfortable talking to him about it, simply direct it into position yourself & take the lead.

 

The vaginal opening is not always easy to find, especially in the dark. And the anus is nearby, and is definitely not the place he wants to put his penis if he is aiming for the vaginal opening. Many women help their guy find the right opening.

 

I think he is having trouble finding exactly where to go, its happens to all of us

 

Probably is, because that's just random otherwise!

 

eh, sometimes guys just find it difficult to get in. you can help out by spreading your lips or guiding his penis. id recommend (and this may sound silly, i know) -talking- to your partner abotu it and seeing whats up with him, why he does it, etc. i mean, if hes doing it for your benefit and itsi not doing any good, better that he knows, yes?

 

I find during missionary at least that all that needs to be done is a thrust forward with out even guiding and it goes right in... natures wonderful.

To the original poster i don't think he is teasing you, i just don't think he is that comfortable or use to sex.

 

I've had some trouble finding THE spot. I don't want to go fishing with my fingers, as I don't think thats necessarily very erotic. I usually go to where I think I need to be and after a few seconds, we usually get connected. I know that its much easier to find for some reason when we've had a lot of foreplay and she is already well lubricated.

 

I can so relate to your issue, basicaly the same thing happend with me. The way I see it is, when I am ready, I'm ready and I have no problems "helping" him. I would rather me be incharge of it then him, because if it takes too long it could make things awkward if he doesn't find it right away.

 

It can be more than one thing. I rub mine around to find the entrance, get the head nice and wet so it slides in easier and also for a little teasing. I do really love it when my partner grabs my dick and points it in and holds on to it as it slides in. Don't know why, but it's a real turn on.

 

ahh memories. are first times always awkward? mine sure as hell was. she was on me cowgirl style and I couldnt find the spot, so she said "I think I know where I am" and guided me in.

I couldnt help myself from laughing.

 

I deffinetly like it when my girl just grabs my cock and guides me in. Like gearjammer said, its a real turn on

 

Well, i'm a vergin, but i trust in what i know to help me aim strait when the time comes.
but then again, i'll never be sure of my ability to evaluate the situation until it acually occers.

 

I do it on purpose for a tease on my girlfriend. Sometimes i go way off and poke her mons and said, "oops, Wrong coordinates." ... Luckily she laughs too; her sense of humor is around my level >.>...

 

Ha ha,

Sounds like nobody knows where to put it to get it in! I like to let the girl grab me and put me in, sometimes the girls get pissed off when I do this, they want you to put it right in. It ain't always easy.

I'd say some of those guys get vagina pics and do your homework on putting it in. heh,heh.


Bustramp

 

Reminds me of a joke I heard years ago:

Competition in a Sex Club - all the women line up against the wall.

All the men walk towards them.

Neatest correct entry wins.

 

I had my gf all lubed up with massage oil from a nice back/pussy rub and bent onto the couch while i nailed her from behind. Every so often i'd pull out too far, and have to find her pussy again and bury it back in. the last time i pulled out, found the hole and buried it,....it wasnt her pussy lol



boy did she jump