Is anyone else getting frustrated about the lack of queer folk in their region? I frequent GayCanada and GayWhiteNorth but cannot find any gay girls in my area! Well, I guess there are, but they're like, the same age as my mother. It's hard for me to even have friendships with other people in the GLBT community because whenever I try, I feel like I'm trying to make them "get with" me. That probably wouldn't be SO bad if I wasn't sixteen and frankly its also tough finding someone my age to just "fool around" with, yanno? I don't mean JUST sex, but a friend or something. I know I'm young, I can most likely wait, but my hormones are raging and it's driving me up the bloody wall. I just had to vent here.. sorry!
i feel for ya. I'm always sexually and emotionally frustrated for a partner(which right now I wish was my best friend) so i started lookin at porn a lot(although that doesn't really help for long) you'll pull through, as will i just keep your eye open and it should come to you!
I'm 27 and it's hard to find other GLBT people here too, and it's a gay friendly city. I am so lucky two lesbians, one my age, and her lover, somewhat older, moved into my apartment complex! They are cool as fuck and invite us out some. And of course my lover, who is 25.
I'm frustrated here too.It's a real homophobic town and I'm not in a big city so there's no real support for glbt community here.Sometimes I want to move!! All I can really say is hang in there,you're not the only one. You'll get through it.
I'm frustrated because, though there are many gays on my campus, there's only one who I like. And we dated for almost two months, and then he broke up with me, and I'm still not over him, even though that was over six weeks ago. The trouble is that I don't see anyone else who I'd like to date, and our breakup was ambiguous and not hostile, making me question and ponder and... fuck!