reasons why you "love the one you're with"...

and its not just a cood CSNY song

the reason i love the one im with is i dont have to do anything special but be my sick, nerdy, weird, funny assed self...and she loves it...and all she has to be is her funny beautiful nerdy self as well...

ok i've started it, you guys continue

 

Honesty. I love the honesty and the way the relationship can progress and continues to develop by creating new worlds between us. It's comfortable. It's easy. It's gratifying and worth all the effort in the day.

I love the one I'm with because he's very normal and geeky. I know it sounds strange, but it's hard to find people that you can connect with that rather ordinary and regular. Someone who doesn't want to try dying his hair black or listen to whatever music he enjoys.

I like being with him because he has a lot of common sense, intelligence, he's someone who is considerate, trustworthy and hard-working. He's the guy next door. He's the guy who has beers with my dad, plays with my cousins, jokes with my friends.

I'm hot to trot for decent guys, and my man's the entire package for me.

 

because their there, and whoever else isn't. no reason to not love anybody, as long as that don't make their presence more of a burden then a blessing. then still love them, with a preference for NOT being with them.

of course we all have insecurities too, so we have to be careful not to hurt anyone if we can avoid it. although i thing the values of the ambient culture contribute a whole lot to their existence. maybe we'd still have some if it was a lot different. but i CAN imagine cultures which would create a LOT less of them.

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because LOVE, is all there is

PS: To me love is green, because is how I see nature and our nature is to love.

 

If thats how everyone understood love, the world would be a very different (and much better) place

I don't know ya, but from your posts I can definitely tell you are a genuinely good person, no other way to put it

 

she is beautiful, kind hearted, an excellant cook, funny, and completes me.

 

My girl now for 3 years... in that time I've changed quite a bit - but she hasn't. She has always been whiney, which at this point I can see as immaturily. She complains, does nothing, and complains more after she could have done something to keep whatever from happening again. Namely "hating" working at a coffee shop, and then after that getting a job at ANOTHER coffee shop. Most importantly here, she didn't use her previous job on the application.. so its not like she couldn't get any other job...
She's older than me, and everyone assumes she is a teenage - its not how she looks, its how she acts. Its the "vibe" she puts out.

My point here is the idea "love the one your with" is what has kept us together up to this point... and I think its a mentality that leads to an incredible number of divorces. The concept says to basically live in the moment - don't worry about how the rest of your life may be with this person.

I can understand being with someone without the intentions of being together forever... but I can't understand falsifying and sticking to those intentions even after things will obviously end up downhill.

With that said I think I must move on...

 

Sounds like a dream

one of the few folks on here that posts about actually doing something - lol.

 

I love Kevin so much and one of the reasons I love him is because I admire him so much for what he does-he's a firefighter and I give him so much credit for being in that line of work...especially because he went to an accident the other night and the kid in the drivers side was his best friends brother-brains blown out his head through his mouth because he wasn't wearing a seatbelt. I love him so much for doing things like that.

I also love him because he keeps me in check when my imagination goes wild and I start talking crazy. He also keeps me sane when my family piss me off. He's like a protector, which can piss me off, but mostly, I admire that about him. He makes sure I'm ok no matter what I'm doing.

 

he's thoughtful, generous, caring, down to earth, intelligent, adventurous, out going, funny, sweet, a great cook, and dead sexy.

for reasons that are beyond me he loves me and i don't know how i got so lucky...

 

well i'm by myself, but i am pretty great, and life would be extremely boring if i didn't enjoy my own company.

 

aww thanks crankyelbow!
I was kinda grumpy, because I've been sleeping really bad lately, but now I'm just happy :hug:

 

heart chakra colour too

 

I didnt know that!!
so love really IS green haha

 

hahaha yeah man, youre right on

 

awe I love you.

 

he already knows the reasons why i love him...

plus he starts threads like this....how could i not love a man who starts threads like this?

 

Well lets see... He is:
Good-hearted, Intelligent, Trustworthy, A good Father to my girls, Hard-working, Mischievious...

Naw... its gotta be the wonderful penis!

 

A man's love is measured in inches, hopefully more than 2.

 

Agreed, two inches may be disappointing. Although, its not so much size as it is the skill of the wielder... lol.