Ladies: How what would you think of your husband if he had bisexual feelings?

I know I have bisexual feelings, though I don't act on it any more. When I was a young man (11-14) I had a good friend and we used to give each other blow jobs all the time. I also let him have anal sex with me a couple times. The first time we were skinny dipping and one thing led to another and I let him have me. I thought I might be gay but then I met the girl that became my wife.

We were engaged when I was 21 and one night I was so horny I went to a porno theater to watch a porno. Sex with my girlfriend was awesome but she was living at home and sex with her was very rare. I just needed to see and enjoy a good porno. It was real dark but I noticed that other men were masturbating to the film and I couldn't help myself, so I began to masturbate. While I was discretely stroking myself a total stranger sat down next to me. He didn't seem to mind that I was jacking off so I slowed down as to not be so obvious. He then touched my leg. I froze. I didn't know what to do. He then slid his hand up my leg and began to masturbate me. Part of me wanted to stand up and walk away...the other part of me wanted some sexual relief. While considering what I was going to do he stopped stroking me, knelt down in front of me and began sucking me off. It was one of the best bj's I've ever had. After he brought me to orgasm he stood up and sat down next to me. I was still glowing and I realized he had his penis out, although it was so dark I couldn't make out his features, I could see that he had his head leaned back against the seat looking at the ceiling or the movie. The bj, an awesome porno movie, a total stranger, the musky scent of the theater, and a penis within two to three feet of me....I couldn't resist. I knelt down in front of him and gave him a friendly "thank you" gift that he obviously enjoyed.

But I felt so guilty after I got home. I tried to forget about it but occasionally it would come to mind and I would feel so bad because I was engaged to a young woman I loved. So I confessed to her. One night I broke down and I told her about my experiences as a young man and what had happened at the theater. At first she was stunned...but she became understanding. She asked me if I were gay and I assured her I wasn't. She never brought it up after that unless I brought it up. A good friend of mine (not the boy friend I had when I was younger) came and visited with me about a month before my lady friend and I were to be married. We had all gone to school together and liked to joke and rough house. I don't remember what started it but the three of us began wrestling. Seeing my soon to be wife wrestling with him turned me on. The two of us ganged up on her, held her down and tickled her. Nothing happened that night but I was so turned on watching her laugh and play with my friend. One night while talking in bed I mentioned to her how much it turned me on. She listened quietly, but her breathing changed. She confessed that it turned her on too and that she felt so guilty that it did, but she said because I didn't act angry she just went along with it all. We both became so horny talking about it we made up a story of how a threesome would happen and we had sex while fantisizing. I let her call me by his name and told her how I was watching her and him together patiently and lovingly waiting my turn. She had one of the biggest orgasms I've ever seen her have, and I did too. It was wonderful.

After we were married about a year later my friend came back to town and needed a place to stay so I offered to let him stay at our house. He stayed with us maybe a month that year.

One night, after he had been with us three weeks, my wife and I were talking in bed again and I asked her if she wanted to invite him to have sex with us and she was so excited but hesitant. I assured her I wanted to see her enjoy herself and that it turned me on. So one night my wife and I decided that we were going to see if he would be interested. We planned pretty well. It was getting late and we were all watching tv. My wife said that she was going to change into something more comfortable. She left to change and soon came back in a sexy little negligee. He didn't say anything but I watched him check her out while pretending to focus on the tv. My wife began to ask if I was ready to go to bed. I told her that I wasn't ready and so she began to kiss me and caress me. As we began to make out a little he laughed and said, "C'mon guys, go to your room!" My wife giggled and said, "It's our house and we can do what we like where we like.", and began to kiss me again. He said, "Suite yourself but I'll see it all." I began kissing my wife's neck and she said to him, "Why watch? ... We're all friends, and hubby wouldn't mind if you joined us." With that she stood up and walked over to him and began making out with him. My dick was rock hard. She led him to our bedroom while I turned off the tv and turned out the lights. By the time I got to the bedroom he was laying across our bed and she had his penis out of his pants and was stroking him. She looked up when I walked into the room, smiled, leaned down and began to suck him. I got undressed and laid down beside them. She stopped and laid on her back between us and I gave her a french kiss. Her mouth was warmer than usual and I could slightly taste his penis on her breath as I kissed her. He was now completely undressed and was sucking on her breast, I opened her legs and began to touch her, she was very wet...my lady was ready. I told him, "Take her, you first." He manuvered himself between her legs and entered her. I watched my wife as she took a deep breath, arched her back, and wrapped her legs around him as he began to thrust into her. I watched my wife fuck him, it was beautiful. I held her hand, kissed her, and licked her nipples. She began to come and then almost as she was finished he pulled himself out of her and blew his wad on her soft belly. I loved watching his semen spurt all over my wife's belly...right there I wanted to suck him soft. But I didn't. That night we had the best threesome sex imaginable. The last week of his stay with us allowed us to enjoy a number of threesomes. She was awesome. Even to this day we sometimes talk about it and have the best sex.

Now we've been married nearly 11 years and we go on vacation to a nice cottage on a lake every summer. We've haven't had any other sexual experiences outside of the two of us since that week with my friend from school. But we've been talking about taking a week vacation and maybe inviting a friend or another couple to come with us who we think might be interested in playing together. I'm more for just inviting a male friend with us.

I'll be frank, this time I want some dick. I don't mind if my wife wants to have another man's penis...I just want to have one too. In all honesty, I'd like to share one with her. But I'm not sure how she'd feel about that.

How should I bring it up?
How do I ask her to share a boyfriend with me?

Are there any ladies here that can give me your thoughts or some advice?

 

i think the important thing is to be very honest with your wife, respect her feelings, and be careful not to force or pressure her into anything. as long as she feels secure in her relationship with you, and she doesn't have to worry about being pressured to do something she doesn't want to do, you should be able to share your feelings with her without any bad repercussions.

 

Hot story!

 

Yeah, that was steamy.

As long as you are all on the same page go for it, but know that feelings can sneak up on you or her or the third party and it cold cause MAJOR poblems. It is definitely a risk, but if it is a risk you are all willing to take, then enjoy it! It sounds extremely hot!

 

Wow. That is a very interesting story, bring it up if she was okay with the whole movie theatre incident, i'm sure she will understand.
A wife wil do whatever to keep her sex life alive.

 

well, i wouldn't go THAT far.

 

Haha I guess, well I would haha

 

omg that was so fuckin hott,

what i think you should do is find a porno that has that exact same scenario(but isnt obvious until like half way in) and isnt obvious on the covers. tell her you want to watch it with her and when that scene comes up, tell her how suprised you are that you are turned on by what you are seeing, see what she says then if its a positive reaction then go for it but if she dosent like the scenarion drop it and try something else.

or you could always try just letting her walk in in you guys lol

 

thats a hot story, I think maybe you can start out my having her use something to bang your ass first and then you can, in the heat of the moment, bring up how you want a real cock

 

Hey, Guy,

She already knows that you've experienced and enjoyed it.

She's, very willingly, joined you in a threesome before and no harm came of it.

I'd be more concerned about finding a guy, or a couple with a guy, who is Ok with it than what you're wife will think.

I sincerly believe that she'll, not only be OK with it but, actually find it erotic.

 

Man, what a story... just be careful!! I think she would be totally into it but you would have to tell her what you want in advance. You should not "just do it" in the heat of the moment. It might freak her out. I have a friend like that that I would love to invite to join us but I am way to nervous to do it...