nobody knows this about me

I'm balemic!! Did i spell that right? Anyway's,yeah after I eat a big meal like sphagetti or steak and potato,I puke! ewww I can't help it!! I thought I was over it but it came back.Before I eat I tell myself that I'm not going to throw up, but after, I feel fat and bloated with some guilt.EEEK!So I throw up to feel better.I think it's a bit of a control thing too.Atleast I brush my teeth afterwords. I recently went to the dentist and I was so nervous because I thought they would immediately Know(i kind of wanted him to,because i think i need help) but he didn't say anything.He whitened my teeth gave me some stickers and sent me on my way.I never wanted anyone to know about this but I'm buzzed and felt like telling someone about my bulemia.I had to get it off my chest!:& Don't judge me

 

*sigh* Well, one thing is for sure ... bulemia sucks! =P

Try becoming a vegetarian or vegan; eating food that at least LOOKS healthy and isn't very filling (i.e. fruit,nuts, salads) usually helps put away that need to throw up.

 

Awww babe I understand.

You dont wanna do that... its not nice, it doesnt feel nice, and really yuou've just replaced one bad feeling with another. plus its not fun having to lie to people about it, or constantly living in paranoia because youre scared that people will find out....

You'll rott your teeth away, and brushing doesnt make a damn difference.

 

My friend's wife was bulimic, and everybody found out when she had to go to the hospital for manutrition. Please don't let that happen to you too, do anything you can tovercome, get all the help you need. If you are confident and tell people and ask for help, they won't make fun or ridicule you, they will help. Don't be afraid to admit a weakness, it takes more courage to do that for the first time than it ever did keeping it a secret.

 

And as Hikaru said,
If courage does not become you,
Become a vegetarian or a vegan,
And do two justices unto yourself,
(1) Eating vegan foods often means you can eat a TON and still lose weight because fruits, nuts, and vegetables are low in calories, and
(2) Assist in lessening the mass-slayings of animals each and every day.

Hikaru can go to the cafeteria and eat four *complete* plates of food every day. This is because he eats only pasta, vegetables, fruits, and nuts for lunch. He can eat four plates, and be hungry again only three or four hours later ...

 

What the hell kid, what the hell does vegan and vegetarian have to do with bulemia..absolutely nothing...please take that to the vegan forum...

Honey, you need to get some help cause it can cause serious health problems. Not only the acid eating away at your teeth, but also if you continue to make yourself vomit, you wont be able to control it, and it will come up with out even trying. One of my realitives were bulemic and suffered from many many health problems.

 

"What the hell kid, what the hell does vegan and vegetarian have to do with bulemia..absolutely nothing...please take that to the vegan forum..."

Friend, you clearly did not read Hikaru's post.

Vegetables, fruits, nuts, and many other vegetarian/vegan foods are quite low in calories. For someone who does not understand bulemia, you sure act as if you know it all.

Bulemia is based on a binge/purge system, where you eat a lot of food, and then you feel very fat, so you throw up.

By "binging" on vegetables, fruits, and nuts, you do NOT get the "I am so full and I feel like I am getting fatter by eating" feeling, and this will lead to less tendencies towards purging.

Thus, a person struck with bulemia can eat, eat, and eat some more, and purge much less, if at all.

Hikaru has explained this before. If stoner finds another way to thwart bulemia regardless of vegetarianism, Hikaru still sees this as a triumph. After all, he only offers his best suggestions.

"Not only the acid eating away at your teeth, but also if you continue to make yourself vomit, you wont be able to control it, and it will come up with out even trying. One of my realitives were bulemic and suffered from many many health problems."

For someone who is so concerned about stoner here, you sure seem to be throwing around a lot of insults and have a lack of suggestions to offer.

Hikaru offered a suggestion.
You did not.
Yet you attempt to insult him?

Perhaps you ought to move to another forum, one more appropriate for insults.

"Honey, you need to get some help cause it can cause serious health problems."

stoner is here to GET help. So help her by offering suggestions, not bashing others' ideas. We all know it causes serious health problems; let's take the next step here, aye?

 

I say "congrats" and keep up the good work. The world needs more shapely, skinny people like yourself!

 

Oh where or where to begin..
first off, you are not some god, so please dont refer to yourself in third person..
and i am not throwing insults, if you had half a brain, you would know that acid from the vomit will cause your teeth to be eaten away..
Thanks for trying though and have a wonderful day...
And it had nothing to do with the food she is eating, Please get some education...

 

it will kill you, get help if you care..

 

bulemia sucks and is not attractive or good...if you want someone to talk to im always here to listen.

 

Hikaru is not a god, nor does he believe it.
Hikaru believes that he is no more qualified to be a god than you.

But Hikaru does refer to himself in the third person for a reason, mystical_shroom. He senses that you do not care what this reason is, so he will not bother to explain it. If you wish to know, then ask him.

Secondly, you ARE throwing insults, by telling Hikaru to take a hike and post his so-called drivel on a board that matters much less than the life of stoner here.

Hikaru, like you, knows that acid eats away the enamel on one's teeth, leaving the calcium cores exposed. Hikaru also knows that repeated vomiting and stomach acid cause decay of the esophogus, and lead to acid reflux disease. He is well-educated on bulemia. Yet, you do not give him credit for this.

Hikaru knows what bulemia is, you need not explain it.

Yet, you STILL do not offer suggestions,
Only insults such as "Please get some education..."

You also say that her bulemia is not related to the food she eats.
This is true.
And it also was NOT Hikaru's point, if you would kindly pay some more attention before posting babble on this topic of utmost importance.

The food you eat does not affect the acidity of one's stomach.
Bulemia is NOT caused by stomach acidity.
Bulemia is caused by one's misconception that they are eating too much food, and will become fat.
The food you eat DOES have an affect on how much you can eat,
As different foods have different calorie contents.
Specifically, fruits, nuts, and vegetables have much less calorie contents than, say,
Chicken, beef, pork, et al.

Hikaru noticed that he is able to eat MUCH more without being full since he has become a vegan, and that he used to only be able to eat a certain amount of food before he could not eat any more.

Thus, he offers a suggestion.

You do not.

Hikaru politely requests that you take your destructive insults somewhere else; either that, or offer some suggestions rather than refuting someone else's earnest attempts to save a life.

Hikaru bids you a good day, sir.

 

can we all stop fighting and just focus here? lol DONT DO IT its so unhealthy ... i cant even stress this fact enough, GET HELP

 

You can read minds?!?!









Jesus, I suck.

 

Too long and too annoying to read...
You dont understand it has nothing to do with what she eats, she could eat lettuce and still want to puke it up!!! Do you know anyone that it bulemic????? No, I didnt think so. I had spent many nights in the hospital with a very very close realitive of mine cause of bulemia. So, please stop being a butthead and know that it has nothing to do with what she eats.

 

Hikaru Zero & mystical_shroom! Give it up or PM each other about this! We don't care! For F**K'S sake how this helping?

Hey hun! Get advice from a councellor or sumthin' Don't take no sh*t off no one! Just go get help, I know it's hard and scary but you need it! I thought I had HIV once and I needed to go get tests BUT I was scared of doctors, I went I'm clean! (I know this dosn't have anything to do with your prob, but when your scared to talk to councellors and doctors you gotta!) PM me and let me know how your feeling!

Hope things work out!

Adam

 

I was giving advice and helping, did you not read my posts..
Everything I said had to do with this thread.

I am just upset cause I've seen someone go through this, and was just stating that it doesnt matter what she eats, she will still make herself vomit. And that she needs to get help and such.

 

"Do you know anyone that it bulemic????? No, I didnt think so."

*ahem* Actually, a close friend of Hikaru's was bulemic, and she became a vegetarian, and has not been bulemic since ... please do not assume things. You are not the only one who had someone close to you be bulemic. The difference between you and he is that you saw your relative suffer with bulemia, whereas Hikaru's friend took some much-needed advice and became a vegetarian ...

"I was giving advice and helping, did you not read my posts.."

All you said was for her to get some help. She is here FOR help, in case you haven't noticed.

Either way, at the request of others, Hikaru is done arguing.

stoner, Hikaru suggests you seek professional help (i.e. from a doctor) or that you do your best to become a vegetarian (or at least just eat more nuts, fruits, and vegetables). Good luck!

 

I think this commet was pretty cruel. You are saying that i let my aunt suffer because i didnt give good advice...Excuse me, she is now passed and i miss her everyday..and we did try to help her and such. Please stop talking to me and replying cause i am done with this thread. Wait till you become an adult and then you will understand..

 

I have no idea what you lot are going on about ..Take it I`m the only one with sense here then?
Peace all, Strange folk..