yea I've been drinking up until 7 months ago and now I feel like an 8th grader again although I'm 20, how do you have good commication with a girl without freaking her out or coming on too strong?
If you have been communicating with women over the fog of alcohol all these years, and you are now sober, try actually listening to what the females are saying and talk about things that they are interested in, not just what you are interested in. The sex may also be better, if you are not drunk when you attempt it.
hey i know what your saying did alot of drinking myself , dont have to drink agin ,i enjoy life to much with out it , with girls , well i got to know myslf and then i started to like what i saw in me ,a good guy,so now i just be myself and dont act , i wouldnt swap my life for nothing ,so when i meet a girl all i do is be me ,dont know if i was any help ,but hey thats life wish you well . peace ,
Listening to the girl is a big plus. But telling things about your life that were accomplishments are nice to hear too, just don't become full of your self. Also it's nice when the guy actually seems to be intrested in you and what you are saying.
Ask a lot of questions. & if you are not getting answers that interest you, move on to the next girl, till you find one who make it feel easy to talk.
You are 20? You are too young! Being drunk is something else... I have a friend that was an alcoholic at your age... But I don't thing he was drunk... He was stoned that was all... Being drunk - it is something that comes out ot years of abuse... Drinks and alcohol kill your male Hormones... You just become nuisance… No libido!
Join the club. I'm 22 and in AA. I pissed away the last four years of my life, you don't want to follow in my footsteps, trust me.
