Offended

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you have to have a tough hide on the forums...well, make that the internet in general. don't worry about it. an endocrine or neurological evaluation is more likely to help you than anything you get here anyways. good luck.

 

I don't think they were trying to offend you. You asked a question and they answered the best they could. Maybe instead of asking people who have no knowledge on this subject, you should see a specialist who would have training in this sort of thing.

Peace and love

 

I don't have any insurance and seeing a specialist costs $$$$ not to mention more money for testing and such.

I just don't appreciate someone telling me that I am gay because I don't enjoy sexual intercourse. This is already a very emotionally devastating position to be in and then for somoene to say I must be attracted to women only makes it worse.

 

These are just random people on the internet- why take anything they say so personally? It's not like they know you.

Have you looked into specialists? Some may have sliding scale charges depending on your income. Maybe even a Planned Parenthood might have something available? You can't be sure that seeing a specialist is out of your price range until you call and ask.

Peace and love

 

I didnt say you were gay, I said MAYBE your are a lesbian, and I actually find this quite funny because I am 14 and I have offended somebody for not calling them gay, like grow the hell up. Yes you do have a problem but asking random people over the internet is definately not the solution.

Like fuck, stop bitching and complaining because you proably are a lesbian and you just wont admit it because being gay must be horrible thing (it's not im not gay but i dont mind gay people).

 

you are nothing but a 14 year old snot nosed brat who shouldn't even be on this forum period let alone giving sex advice to adults.

 

lol I usually dont go to the sex part of this site, it's mostly for creepy people. I only go here to see the funny things.

And by the way hahahahahhahahahhahahahaha you cant have good sex! :lol:

 

Well, I missed the main post, but I think I get the idea.

First off, someone saying you MIGHT BE a lesbian shouldn't be so bad... it's not a big deal. Have you ever considered it, or do you just KNOW you wouldn't do that? It's always a possibility...

Anyway, some people just don't enjoy it. I know a girl who DOES consider herself a lesbian, has dated girls and guys (when she was younger) but she's never had sex and never wanted to.

Have you tried calling any specialists? I mean, just call. Tell them what's going on and try to find out first if there's any kind of insurance that would cover appointments with them. It might be a problem with nerve endings or something.
How many times have you had sex, or done it yourself? I'm asking because I know a lot of girls that had no pain when they lost their virginity, but said they didn't feel much the first few times... and after they got more used to it and into it (not worried about the other person seeing them naked, etc), problem solved. They were more comfortable with it and learned to enjoy it. It works for some people, but it could be a more serious physical problem.

 

I have already stated that I am straight. I am only sexually attracted to men. It's really quite condescending and disrespectful for other people to continue to stress the issue about what my sexual orientation might be. I would really appreciate it if people would just rule out this you may be a lesbian crap.

 

That's nice, really.
But have you even paid any attention to anything else that was recommended, or are you too set on stressing that you aren't queer?