Awkard moments in an elevator.

I think I need to stop saying hi and smiling to people when they get on the elevator, because I always get on this awkward situations that I dont know how to handle. Past Friday I got asked out on a date that I said yes too, but luckily the guy didnt call, though I would have said something when he did call. He was cute and everything, too normal for me haha, but I dont want to date anyone right now.
Today there was this other guy, that the first day I was here (on August), he was on the elevator too and we had this long conversation. I always talk to everybody, so today he actually remember I lived on the 17th floor, I didnt even remember it was the same guy, until he said that and he was like yeah, I saw you on August and in my mind I'm like why do you remember in what floor do I live, so we talked for a little while. When I was getting out of the elevator he asked me 17th what? and I'm like getting out quickly, avoiding the question and acting all confused.. I'm like what? so he actually stopped the elevator to ask me what apt did I live in, I didnt want to say, but what was I going to say, I dont feel comfortable telling you where I live (maybe I should have). I told him 1715, but now the guy knows where I live and I dont want him to know
How do you guys deal with those situations? and has anyone else had a awkard moment in an elevator?

 

About a month ago, in the elevator at the mall, a guy asked me out. I told him I'm married and showed him my ring. He had the audacity to argue with me that it isn't a wedding ring (its untraditional). I was shocked! So I told him that even if I wasn't married, I don't go out with neanderthals.

 

I thought you had a bf autentique??

 

I HAD a bf, that's why I dont want to date anyone right now or anytime soon. The whole idea of it makes me feel really uncomfortable, it's all very recent.

 

aw baby. <3 *nods* je comprends

 

Je ne compris pas, not one bit haha I dont really speak french, it's what I remember from school, but I can understand a lot it.

 

I do the same thing. I can't really tell guys no to their face. If they ask me for my number, it comes right out, because all of my lies i've previously thought of i forget on the spot.


I can say oh sorry I have a bf.
Or oh sorry I dont have a cellphone.
Or oh i'm illegal, lol.


None of the shit works though and I always end up just not answering my cell for a couple days.

aura, lock your door

 

Sending hugs your way Darlin'. I am sorry you are hurting. Someday your prince will come!

 

hahahaha ohh dont worry it's locked :tongue:

 

Thanks
Im not really hurtin anymore, Im just you know, being with me

 

I just tell them Im not interested, if im not

 

I wish I could do that, I always feel so bad about saying things like that.

 

Its better to tell them the truth then have them think they have a chance!

 

You are actually right!!
Is just sometimes I feel like I should give everyone a chance, though that can be quite problematic.

 

The question must be raised... in those situations where your numbers etc are just handed out, how can a guy tell the difference???

 

I don't actually feel BAD for it. I can tell guys to go fuck themselves, when needed, to their face. i'm mean.

It's just that i feel uncomfortable sitting there or being in the same store/place with a guy I just rejected.

I just find it easier to give up my number and never pick up the phone, lol.

 

Good on you, Chica!

 

HAha exactly I mean I say no or something and then I got 10 more floors down to go.
But isnt that kind of creepy that that guy remember that I live on the 17th floor, something that happened in August 12th (I remember the exact date because it was my first day here in Canada) and now I told him where I live.

 

I feel bad about lying. I've NEVER given anyone a wrong number or anything like that.