I feel like I havn't been connecting very well with people recently, for several months now. I feel really distant. I feel like I don't know where I belong. I'm also interested in a guy who says he's crazy about me. He's pretty much the only one I feel a connection with. However, when we actually hang out, I'm so affectionate and he just doesn't seem into me. So, my question is, is this guy sincere? What do things look like for our relationship in the future? And where do I belong?..why don't I fit in? Thanks...
RDH, don't look to others for your place in the world. Who are you? What is it that makes life worth living for YOU? What floats your boat? It's a hard road for those who don't fit the mainstream, but you need to be true to yourself--and only you can say who you are and where you belong. This is part of the task you've been given, and it will require you to dig into your own being and to be courageous. As far as your relationship--this is one of your tasks also. The test of a relationship is how much of yourselves you can reveal to each other--instead of asking us these questions, ask him--and if his response is evasive, you'll know in your heart what you need to do to maintain your own integrity. On the other hand, if he's forthcoming, and you can draw each other out, maintain a dialogue, and reach deeper understanding--well, that's what a relationship is really all about, isn't it? There's only one way to find out, and it's up to you to do what's needed. Strength and courage to you.
I think this book might help you. It is called "Earth Angels." by author : Doreen Virtue. Sometimes when you have an old soul you will feal disconnected from people, the world, pretty much all of mankind and you willl feal like you dont belong. Sometimes this is because your spirit/energy/soul whatever you want to call it is from a higher plane and you should feal alittle strange living amonst humankind. I am not sure if this relates to you, but finding this book might explain some things to you. This is an introduction of the book on Amazon.com follow the link... I dont know but maybe this will help..... http://www.amazon.com/gp/reader/1401900488/ref=sib_fs_top/103-6153186-1949423?ie=UTF8&p=S00C&checkSum=y6ghHh4ajra1VHHXUKnz40zIiycHmmPoeD%2FsnLLEmJY%3D#reader-link
Anytime hun. She is a great author and i'm sure that you will find her to be very empowering. She has many great books but I particularly liked this one and found it usefull... Have a great day and *SMILE*
