They're are undefined age "limits" in my opinion to everything, but do they change if it is a one night stand verses a relationship. I was wondering if people tend to have a larger age range when it comes to one or the other. (And if you say age doesn't matter than this doesn't pertain to you.) The way i see it is I would let myself have a "fling" with someone older / younger than i would actualy date, why? because I am not persuing a long term realtionship. Wondering your thoughts and if you have a certain "rules / guidelines" you follow along by.
Age itself is not the thing. But I've been having lots of chance conversations with women in their early 20s --- and I can't fail to notice an experience gap. I don't really respond to "bubbly" personalities. Makes communication a bit awkward. I favor neither a sexual commitment nor a fling. Depends on the situation. But I sure as hell won't put myself in awkward company. I tend to prefer older women and fantasize about the young 'uns. Nothing highly unusual I guess.
Some chicks go through a daddy phase and want to have a real relationship with some dude 10-20+ years older than them lolz. What kind of dipshit dude dates an 18 year old when they're 30? If any of my friends started doing anything with an 18 year old more than just saying "I'm getting some action, that's it", I would probably avoid that creepy mother fucker like the plague. If you want to have a good relationship, take a look at some of the best ones out there (you may or may not even have any around you; the "best" relationship you know of can still be shit). Generally it's two people who are mature, educated, responsible, fun, who love eachother, and are in the same place in their lives. My dad gave me some good advice. Never have a serious relationship until you're 18, and never get married until your 25. You'll change more from 18-25 than any other period in your life. And so will whoever you're dating during that time. The odds of two 18 year olds emerging into their 30's as still compatible is slim. Besides, the last thing you should be doing when you're 18 is worry about finding someone for the rest of your life. Find yourself first. You're only young once.
