ill summarise as much as i can we tried to have sex, but I just couldn't get it in. she didnt seem too tense or nervous but i cant think of anything else to cause it I could barely fit a finger inside. when I tried two fingers, I went really slow but she said it hurt so bad, so we stopped, she was in a lot of pain . wetness wasnt the issue im sure not sure what to try next
is she a virgin? has she had sex comfortable beofre? can she insert two or three fingers herself? if two of your fingers hurt her, your penis sure as hell will (unless its a question of untrimmed nails)
Allonym has it right. Make sure your nails are trimmed, and that her vagina has a lot of lubrication, and well as your fingers. How thick is your erect penis? More than two fingers wide and you have a problem. If she is a virgin she may still have her hymen, and there will be blood the first time you have intercourse.
thats not normal. you should get her to see her local gp. and i dont really know how you cant get it in.. she must be swallon down there or something