Someone might find it a strange topic. But here is the thing: Men are relatively easy to seduce. Sometimes, when you know your man long enough, you know his every move, you are not that thrilled about having sex with him anymore.. Women are generally slower when it comes to turning on. He is finished when you are just starting to get horny. Some men sometimes even think that simply because you are his wife, you are automatically ready to have sex with him. It is really hard to make him seduce you again and again when we are in a long term relationships.. What can we, women, do to ourselfs to turn on. Maybe you can share some tricks and tips?
I think foreplay is very important...I try to get my enjoyment there so when sex comes, I don't get angry when he's finished before me.
Having a special date, time for one another or some kind of special occasion and looking forward to quality time is crucial. It's good to anticipate intimacy.
possibly spend a week away from your hubby, or spouse, or w/e. makes you think about them all week long and realize that life without them isn't the same, unless you haven't already replaced him, ha!
Do things that make you feel beautiful. When I wear extra sexy underwear, get bikini wax, or my nails done for example, I always am so excited after I just want to be loved up, or do the lovin
I agree! i prefer it. I like the build up it leads to. I also prefer it b/c unless i am really "wet" down there, it hurts when he penetrates me at first during sex (b/c it feels dry). We try the lube but for some reason the lube just doesnt do the trick. I guess the natural lubrication of my body is the only thing that works to keep it from hurting when he enters me.
I don't think it's necessarily the lubrication. When a woman is excited, the vaginal muscles relax and lengthen. If you're not wet, then you're not excited. And if you're not excited, you're likely to be a bit tight and tense down there. Anyway, I'm pretty good at getting myself worked up. I think I have a Y chromosome somewhere in my genetic makeup, because I'm like a 20yo man sometimes when it comes to sex. I think about sex a lot, watch porn, daydream about my husband in sexy scenarios. I'm sure that age has something to do with it, too. We're both approaching late-30's...so he lasts a good while and we both know what we like.
