i must be obese

We like being led around by our manhood


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Without a doubt.

With age for men seems to come the ability to kinda ignore it a bit.

But it does get annoying for me personally. Damn. I'm glad I have hobbies. If it weren't for that, I would personally be chasing skirt all the time.

 

I'd probably be really worried if I saw a naked hot chick on the street and it didn't affect me. I mean, this is me, it's the way I am. I have learned how to disregard my sexual urges somewhat though.

I mean I can have friends that I am attracted to now, without ever trying to sleep with them. Whereas when I was younger I would have to at least give it a try.

I don't think though that I would like to lose my sex-drive. There's plenty of time for that when I'm ancient.

 

Also men don't act in solidarity, but they'll talk like they do.

 

Tough call.

 

this post just irritates me, not be rude. I just think its dumb...what’s so wrong with natural ...wear a bikini if YOU feel comfortable, and don't ask your friends how u look. If you know your thin, don’t ask people if ur fat so they can tell you how beautiful and how great you look. and if u really aren’t comfortable with the way you look do something about it. I hate how everyone is soooo concerned with the way they look....take a look on the inside because until you feel good in there, i bet you nothing will make u feel good on the out either. Looks really don’t get you ahead in life, do something good for the environment, how someone you care about….i bet it will make you feel like a much better person than just worrying about the way you look. Sorry if its harsh, I just had a huge conversation with my best friend about eating disorders and im pretty irritated with the whole topic of self image. I think people can be pretty selfish sometimes.

 

Not for me. There are some friends of mine who are so hot... but I would much rather be their friend forever than their lover for a month. Some people mean too much to me to try to fuck. It's kinda weird but I would have it no other way.

 

"how someone you care about….i bet it will make you feel like a much better person than just worrying about the way you look. Sorry if its harsh, I just had a huge conversation with my best friend about eating disorders and im pretty irritated with the whole topic of self image. I think people can be pretty selfish sometimes."

I meant to say "help someone you care about......"

 

Well yeah it depends. Having beautiful friends who you want to sleep with does bring up the issue of can you still be a friend after things go that way.

But theres also the fact that you may be their friend because you like a lot of qualities about them, and if your attracted to them, it could lead to more.

And If I think there's something there its always worth pursuing in my opinion. Which is why I say, tough call

 

...i know we've gotten a bit off the original topic but did you bother to read the thread?

 

From my point of view, it would be worth pursuing(for a whie), but from the girl's side, I would advise any of my friends(and have done) to avoid trying to have a relationship with me.

I know myself too well and would rather see my friends with a good guy than waste their time with somebody like me who in the end will hurt them.

It sounds a bit silly even to me when I say it out loud but I'm a much better friend than I am a boyfriend.

 

but romantic relationships have a greater tendency to crash and burn than friendships, and its usually difficult to have a friendship after romance.

i've become very good friends with exes, but they were never friends before i began romantic relationships with them and i was never deeply in love with them.

 

i did read the thread.....i read the first post too.....a link to some famous women that got caught in her bathing suite that looks perfectly healthy! and the question under that asking if she is fat??? and then another statement saying you must be obese, well let me tell you i feel shallow enough to have looked at ur profile (wish i didn't considering it has no importance to weather u are big or not), and clearly u are not by any means at all chubby...r u trying to get attention? why would u even ask the question?

 

Well it's certainly your call. I would just suggest, don't close yourself off completly from the idea of romance just because you haven't been ready to commit in the past.

In any case, god speed.

 

um...i was asking to begin a conversation about it.

i know im not obese. thats why i said "if she's fat, i must be obese" to indicate that i didn't feel she was fat.

im kind of embarrassed that i had to explain that to you.

 

Yep. Like I said, touch call. I just find romantic love more meaningfull I think, and worth betting on.

bet love I say. No matter how crazy or potentially heartbreaking, and it might be, the oppurtunity.

Might not work for you. But I think it'd work for a lot of people if they just followed that instinct.

 

apparently the point of the thread is a bit harder for others to figure out.

 

thats a good point. and really, in a sense, romantic love is really just a form of extremely strong friendship. lots of couples say they're best friends, so i guess its really not too much of a stretch.

 

i just dont understand why people are so into the outside looks...im not meaning to make u embarrassed for me or anything it just seems like a shallow question....i dont know why it matters why she is fat or not.

 

You shouldn't have to explain yourself.

You're an attractive girl and based on your pictures, albeit you're wearing black (the color of thin) weight is the least of your problems


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