sucks ass! My baby's mom just let me go after 4 years because I couldn't take her out enough. I guess that's what I get for being involved with someone younger and less in tune with their life then me. Just wanted to rant. Thanks.
She dumped you b/c you didn't take her out enough? Her priorities sound a little fucked up, especially since she's a mom. When you're a parent, going out w/ your SO is put on the back burner to (DUH) take care of your child! She doesn't sound like the best parent- what about your child? If going out is her #1 priority, perhaps you might want to consider seeking custody. How does she treat your child? Peace and love
As far as her mothering goes, she's great at it. She is only 22 almost 23 and so I know that has to do with some of it. I am in every part of my little girl's life. She is 3 now so not really a baby anymore. As far as custody goes, we do 1 week on 1 week off so it's a 50/50 split with me and her mother. Thanks for all the replies though guys. I really just needed to vent. Plus I enjoy getting feedback from others so that I know I'm not just being crazy in thinking the way I do.
Things may clear up once she realizes that you two are really apart. Sometimes, people just need to get away. you do have a child together and that can do the strangest things between people. But then again, it maybe the end. I had to get away from the guy I was with after 12yrs cause he kept getting pissed at me about everything, I couldn`t breathe without possibly gettting beat on after awhile. Or I`d go work and he would burn something of mine or break it. He was a real asshole. It is better to be you and live, than to have a creep in your life. Not that your woman was, but I have a friend, a person I know of and,,,she went out this past wekend. Had just had a baby about 2-3weeks before and after she went out,,,she goes out all the time and she was drunk trying to nurse her baby,,,the father threw her out. There is a time and place for everything. Children come first, but we also need to be adults too. But life sometimes is hard with children and if you think you need something more than them, that is the sad part. People can be together as adults and parents and still have a life without going out all the time.
Goodluck with everything. I dont know what i would do if me and my boyfriend broke up. I love him so much that i cant live without him. And even though we have our little fights here and there we get over them. I hope. Maybe soon you'll find someone soon that doesnt care about going out. My boyfriend never takes me out, like we'll go out for him or something but im fine with that.
