First Time Giving Head

My boyfriend left for college today, and I decided to give him head before he left. It was my first time and his. He said it was weird, but I had fun with it. I'm still a n00b, so it wasn't great. Just wanted to share my good news.

 

Congrats!!!

 

Thanks katsu! It was a lot of fun! We were discussing the experience online, and he wants to try going down on me. The thought of it gets me wet. I'm kinda nervous, but excited at the same time. Does anyone have any kind of advice for going down on a girl? My boyfriend has no clue what to do exactly, but he said he wants to play around with it. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

 

Just try watching some porn with him ya know and watch the techniques and just go for it but most of all its all based on figuring each other out ya know and you have to guide him and tell him what feels good. It'll all fall into place

 

this might help: http://www.sexual-health-resource.org/oral_sex.htm

 

the first time i gave a blowjob was a good experience, for me my best friend judy was there and i did it to her boyfriend as she told me what to do, but i did gag alot when he came in my mouth i wasnt ready for that, it hits fast is kinda of salty,i think i gagged becuse it hit the back of my troat so hard.

 

Unlike what this guy says, I DON'T suggest looking at porn for advice and suggestion, as that is just created for visual effect only. I'd go by the advice of the real couples on here that know what their talking about. Just go slow, listen and look at him to read his body langauge and what he tells you. I am a guy and I know my penis better then anyone ), so he should be the best expert on what he wants...

 

practice makes perfect

 

Send him these links so he can brush up on technique by the time you two meet again.

THE-ART-OF-CUNNILINGUS-or-HOW-TO-EAT-PUSSY It's wordy somewhat, but WELL worth the read, it goes into greater detail and with the most sensuous and IMHO effective technique of any other resource that I've come across on the web.

These others are good summaries that can be read as an overview but I highly recommend the first link as a MUST read.
sexinfo cunnilingus
sexual-health-resource oral_sex
the clitoris.com cunnili also wordy but just do find on "actual techniques employed"

Realizing you'll may wanna cut 'n paste the links, I've included the same links above with full url:
http://www.scribd.com/doc/236322/THE-ART-OF-CUNNILINGUS-or-HOW-TO-EAT-PUSSY
http://www.sexinfo101.com/pw_cunnilingus.shtml
http://www.sexual-health-resource.org/oral_sex.htm
http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/cunnili.htm, do find on "actual techniques employed"

Enjoy

 

Thanks a lot you guys! I'll be seeing him within the next couple weeks or so. All the advice, and the links are much appreciated. Much love, CSNM

 

All the links you guys sent me have helped out immensely. I know this thread was dead, but I decided to resurrect it in case someone else needs the links.

When my boyfriend came home for Thanksgiving, we were able to spend some time alone. I decided to try swallowing his cum for the first time. What I did was took him about half way into my mouth then when he signaled to me that he was going to cum I made sure it hit the back of my tongue first, before going down my throat. The most I can get him to do for me is finger me, and play with my clit. Every time he's about to go down on me, he chickens out because of the smell. I make sure that I wash up really well before we even try anything like that, but I just can't get him past the smell. Any ideas?

 

You just swallowed his jizz and he's freaking out about going down on you? Get a new boyfriend.

One day that guy is going to learn the system. Oral is a two way street, unless you're one of those chicks who doesn't like to recieve and only gives.

 

For some, it's an acquired taste, I guess. Maybe try a bit of flavored lube? Might help at first. and as the lube wears off, he might get accustomed to the taste as he's doing it. Just my first thought.

 

Good news. Keep it up, it gets great, and most of all don't let him know you don't think it's great. Love it, don't leave it.

 

If you are still reading this have you tried a scented or flavored douche? I personally like the smell when I am hot but some don't.

 

Boys who don't eat pussy? Do they still make those? I thought they were like Betamax tapes.

 

My bf came home for the holidays for the end of Dec to Jan 20th. We got to play around a few times, mostly involving me giving him head. I kept hinting that I wanted him to at least try pleasuring me orally, but he wasn't taking the hints. Finally, I got him to try it, but that only lasted a minute or so, and then he got freaked out again. It felt great while it lasted. How can I get him to warm up to the idea? It's not like shoving his knob in my mouth is the greatest thing in the world, but I know he likes it, so I do it for him. I just wish I could get a little something in return. Am I being jealous? or is he just not being "fair"?

 

He is not being fair.

For me a absolute pre-requisite for a potential mate is their willingness to perform oral sex on me. I of course will reciprocate.

That is the key word here: reciprocation.

Poor girl.

 

Lay it on the line. Tell him straight-up that there is no more for him if he doesn't give you something in return. In fact, making him go first might just help anyway, since he'll be that much more horny before cumming than he is after, and so much more likely to be up for it.

However, I am wondering how on Earth he could NOT be loving it. The furthest I ever went with a girl was having my fingers up her pussy... and I have to tell you my hands never smelt so good!! No offence... but something definately wrong with that boy...


LQ

 

I'm not a very confrontational person though, that's my problem. I get too worried about what other would think of me if I tried to make some sort of change. I guess I need to grow some balls (pardon the expression) in this case. I really do love my boyfriend, but I'd like to be pleasured as much as I pleasure him. After masturbating myself, I've tried my cum before, and it's really not that bad. It can't be any worse than his cum right? I've tried shaving the area to make it appear "cleaner", but that didn't work. I've tried washing the entire area with sweet smelling shower gel, but that didn't work. Is there a way that I can keep hinting at the idea of him orally pleasing me? Or do I definitely have to confront him?