Could you stand to look at him everyday knowing that hes done your wife? What about employee christmas partys and such? Wouldn't it be weird to take her to that?
well, did he know she was married? if he didnt know, hes not exactly at fault. if he knew, hes an asstard and i wouldnt wast emy time trying to earn him more money (ie work for him)
Would be interesting to see how much slack I could get away with, while looking for a job somewhere else. It would be cool if I went through training, and then just up and quit when things get tough, right before Christmas. But I'm very spiteful.... BTW, where the fuck are you from?
Why are you blaming the guy? He commited no crime. It's your wife who committed the adultry in this hypothetical.
My ex cheated on me with some dude. I found him at a party a year later and beat the shit out of him infront of his friends. They all stood there; none of them helped him, because they're all a bunch of pussies. I expected everyone to give me shit for doing it, because the guy probably is about 6' tall, 150lbs. But he's a fuck, and that's what you get. Some people were pissed at me for it, but most everyone understood it had to happen. Call me a meat head if you like, but on that day I got my dignity back and reminded that group of people that if you fuck me over you're going to eat pavement.
Anger management? When my fiance cheated on me, I had no desire to kick that girl's ass. I blamed him, dumped him, and for some reason, we're engaged. Peace and love
They both fucked up. Beating the shit out of a 110lb girl wasn't really in the cards, so I went after him. Took me a year to find him. He had no idea who I was when I start swinging and was yelling "I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHO YOU ARE!!!". Then I stopped for a sec and screamed "YOU REMEMBER WHEN YOU FUCKED MY GIRLFRIEND???" lolz It wasn't about them. It was about me getting my dignity back and showing my town that if you cross me you're going to pay for it. I didn't kick him in the face or get stupid. Just inflicted a reasonable amount of pain. Respect is earned.
Violence does not get your dignity back. It gets you sent to jail for assault. Who said that kicking someone's ass = dignified response? What if your ex told the guy that she was single before they had sex? Then what reason do you have for kicking his ass? Peace and love
It doesn't matter if he knew or not, but he did. That's why you can be guilty of something via negligence: doing something bad only because you're stupid is less bad than out of malice, but it's still bad. You live your life by your rules and I live my life by mine. I essentially have three rules: 1) Don't steal from me. 2) Don't make time with my girl. 3) Don't lie to me about important shit. Break the rules, and I'll come down on you like a ton of bricks. So how about you don't judge me and I won't judge you.
Dude, it doesn't matter who knew what. If you will even consider working FOR someone who boned you wife PERIOD, your either a pussy, or your terrible at thinking things through before you do them, or both.
I think you should take the job for like a month, get yourself put on lunch duty, and put him on a diet of splooge sandwiches.
what's so pathetic about not letting an insult pass? i doubt i'd even get the job since the boss in question would recognize me and freak out. "omg call security" yep, two counts of felony assault (idk what constitutes felony assault but if someone betrayed me like that i'd prolly meet the criteria)