first time

Discussion in 'Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Trans, etc.' started by doughnut123, Nov 6, 2007.

  1. doughnut123

    doughnut123 Member

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    sometimes i think i want to try and hook up with another guy but usually when i think about it i want it to happen in a certain way. i want to go and get drunk andsome guy take me home and show me what a real man can do. is that weird or is it kind of normal.
     
  2. Formaltide

    Formaltide Member

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    I'm thinking that there are a LOT of gay male teens who'd just like to get drunk and run home with the first hot guy they see. I just passed my teen years, but I admit that I think thoughts like that as well at times. It's normal. We're attracted to guys and we want to have sex. And although I've thought about doing similar things many times, and have even gotten very close to actually doing it, I'd rather reserve my first time for someone that I really want to be close with. I just think that would make it a lot more magical and special.

    Of course, I'm myself and you are you. Whether you want to wait for someone special to come along and maybe make it happen the way you want it to, or if you just want to get a guy just to try it, it's all up to you. Don't let a fear of being "weird" or "normal" get in the way. Normal is what you make it to be. If you were considered "weird", then trust me, there would be a LOT of people who would be in the same boat as you.

    I hope I was able to help in some way. Take care of yourself, all right?
     
  3. mushie18

    mushie18 Intergalactic

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    why would you want to be drunk?

    i agree, alcohol is fun but so is being sober and enjoying another person.
     
  4. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Yeah, I dont know about the alcohol thing, you don't want to get "Brewers Droop" as we call it over here, especially your first time.


    Anyway, I thought this was a thread about first time stories.....

    My first time was a total surprise, I was 15, he was this huge maori guy(for 15 anyway), vice captain of the footy team, seemingly the straightest guy in school. His parents worked odd hours so sometimes some of us would hang round his place and drink beer (his dad let him). Anyway, on on of these occasions everyone else had to go, forget why, and it was just me and him, 20 minutes later there was some show me yours, I'll show you mine stuff, and then I got attacked (in a good way ;)).

    I had a smile on my face for a week ;)

    I was too young though, for him is was just sex, I had a huge crush, this went on for about 6 weeks, but then Yr 10 finished and he moved interstate for an apprentiship. When he went I was a complete mess for like a month. I look back at it now and laugh, but at the time it felt like my world had ended
     
  5. britishman2525

    britishman2525 Member

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    Don't get drunk! What are you crazy? Find a discreet place where no one will bother you, wear a condom, and have fun...
     
  6. makihiko

    makihiko Official hippie since 2005

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    i'll show you a good time;)
     
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