This may be long, so fair warning. I'm in a bad mood and I need to vent somewhere. Anyway, what am I doing wrong? Every relationship I get in, turns out bad. Either the girl treats me wrong, or cheats on me, or something else. I don't just go for the hottest girl I see, I always try to find a girl that's cute, but atleast has a good personality, and shares some intrest, but that isn't working. My frist gf all she wanted was my money form me. When I lost my job and didn't have cash, she all the sudden lost intrest in me, and broke up with me. Next girl I had cheated on me three weeks in the relationship. Idioicly enough I took her back six months later so she could just turn out to be a total bitch. I'd spend almost every night of the week with her, but one night I wanted to hang out with other friends (all male too). She was fine with it, till the day before, then she got all emo and told me I had to hang out with her becuase she wanted to see a movie. Well becuase I'm an idiot who wants to be a good boyfriend and make his girlfriend happy, I did it. Then I told her a month later however I was going out with my friends on a trip. We would be gone the weekend, and she was fine with that. Untill the day before agian. Well this time I told her I wasn't canceling, and she had to deal with it. She was mad of coruse, and left me about 20 text messages, telling me how mad she was that I left her all alone, and how I never spend enough time with her (agian almost seven days a week). I broke up with her becuase I was sick of all that (I don't mind spending a lot of time with my gf, but not every single second of my life, I need some space). In between that though, I had another gf. Things worked well for a month, till she found another guy that was apparently hotter than me (horray for only being average looking). THe only good part of this was she broke up with me using the good old "It's me not you". I won't get into the other detials of my failed relationships, and me getting screwed over by what other women do to me, but the thing that recently happened, really ticked me off. This girl I go to class with, had a crush on me, for a bit. I wasn't ready to risk being hurt agian, and I should have trused my better judgement, but I didn't. So I go ahead and ask her out. Shes all happy, and ask me to call her. Well next day I do, and all the sudden she just wants to be friends. Well either she changed her mind or she was leading me on. Ok I'll give her the benefit of the doube, relationships can fuck up friendships pretty bad. Well the funny thing is, now she won't talk to me at all. I wave and say hi, she just ignores me. Great. A week later shes starts dating some other guy. I talked to the guy (he didn't know I asked her out) and found out her just asked her out a day ago, so she wasn't dating him when I asked her out. The girl still ignores me, so I assume she was leading me on, or w/e. Honestly, I wouldn't have cared if the girl rejected me, or even if she atleast stayed my friend, but just ignoring me bugs me. I don't even try to talk to her now, since I know shes pretty much a bitch. I don't get it, I try to be nice, I try to do what my g/f wants, I try to be a good bf but I always end up with the short end of the stick. Maybe it's true, nice guys do finish last. I guess a girl wants a guy that treats her like shit, so she can get her feelings hurt and become one of those bitchy femist that complain that men don't treat them right becuase they reject every nice guy that comes along (Ok I'm sure that's unfair, but at the moment I don't care). I'm sorry to all the girls out there that aren't like this, which I'm sure there is, but at the moment I'm just sick of shit that girls pull on me. So if anyone knows why this happens to me, and what to do to stop it (Other than give up dating, which I'm doing at the moment, just having sex with random girls, yeah not the best thing, but at the moment I just don't care anymore.), please fill me in. PS: Forgive all the typos I'm sure I made, I'm too busy being in a bad mood ><
ok well the first girl probably didn't lost interest in your over your money - honestly its hard to tell with the details you're giving, but I've been found guilty of this one thing but let me explain - I never wanted him for his money, in fact often times I'm the one who likes to pay for things and such, but when he lost his job he got all emo and stuff and I just couldn't take his negativity. on top of that, we were subletting at the time and whenever it came time to look for another place he would only look for places that are way out of our price range. so we never have money to go out, let alone to save. we're still together and he STILL doesn't have a job, but at least now hes trying, thanks to some motivation.
