"Is it Cheating?" OR Swinging?" What's right and wrong?

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Maybe he was just testing your faith in him. Seeing if you trust him. I think you failed the test. lol

 

yes itis cheating, i fhe didnt get clearance to go fuck someone else
dump his lameass

 

Cheating is sneaking around behind someone's back. Swinging is an agreement between the couple. If he's being dishonest and doing it behind her back, it's cheating. Simple as that.

 

^ exactly
Yes its cheating.. fuck that guy

 

Next question then, Should this girl confront him about it?
and give him a chance to tell her the truth before she lays out her
evidance.?

 

The girl should be making a doctors appointment and dumping the boyfriend.

The infidelity,dishonesty and disregard for the girlfriend would definitely be a deal breaker for me. It's not like it was a one time thing, but repeated trangressions. If he is going to swingers parties it unlikely that he is going to stop. Call it a fetish, fantasy, kink, whatever but apparently it means more to him than she does.

 

yeah, i agree, i just dont understand why he leads her on.

Should she confront him? or just dump him and get it over with!?

 

She should confront him and dump him definitely, I'm sure she deserves better than that

 

Cheating is cheating. Swinging means you are both involved. Clearly you are not, so bounce him to the curb. There are pleanty of us honest men who would never think of cheating.

 

Why bother confronting him? Does she hope to find some sort of resolution? Or, does she just want to express her anger?

If she walked out tomorrow I am sure he would know why. So, just leave. Confrontations can end badly, and often do, so why should she put herself in a potentially bad position?

I suggest walk away and don't look back. If he cared what she thought he wouldn't have been screwing around behind her back.

 

i think she just wants to express her anger, but yeah your right she should leave him and not look back.

But she is stuck in that, "well i love him" bullshit...
So i dont know, hes the kind of guy who is so use to havng sex with other women and doesnt know how to say no.....
So no matter if its today , tomorrow or next week, he will always cheat on whoever he is with, sometime down the road, no matter what the situation.
or at least that is what it seems....to me