my mother never hugs me

Canadian men are the worlds best huggers. I think there was a program on it once. Turns out we just have thicker blood and bigger beer bellies. Soft and supple. Like hugging a big warm pillow.

 

I hugged an Austin native and never want to hug anyone but. lol

 

Austin folk in general or just that specific one?

 

lol....probably just the specific one! But I suppose Im not too picky lol

 

Like a hug-slut.

 

A little bit, yes.
When you put it in such a thoughtful way

 

Just trying to keep it PG. It is a very lovely thread.

Not going to be the one to sully it.

 

Im not really a touchy feely person either. I mean my kids, parents ect are cool but Im sorta shy or something about others. Sorta drove me nuts in school with girls huggin and all with ya. Really to this day dont know why, I would guess its all about personal space or something.

Maybe Im just even stranger than I thought.

 

aww thats sad, i dont know what id do if my mom wouldnt hug me, but it could be worse my one friend was 18 when his mom first told him she loved him

 

My mom is like that too, even about the drunk part.... just make sure that you hug the living shit outta your own kids, get your cuddles from them.

 

wow, I never actually thought about this too much before now. I can't remember the last time I hugged either of my parents, or the last time I even said the words "i love you" to them. weird

 

Mmm... Did something traumatic ever happen to your mother?

Usually people who don't like to hug have a hard time being all "huggy" because of some period in their lives where they have had to be strong and reclaim their independence.

 

My mum rarely hugged me too.
But thats ok, I prefer not to be hugged by my parents. Or by my sister.

 

i smother my children.. and other peoples children with hugs!

anyone want a hug? i think i'm getting a cold! :grouphug:

 

my mom always hugs me,my whole family shares hugs.

 

So boogabaah, did you speak to your mother about this issue like a normal human would?

 

uuuhhh.. well the thing about talking to my mother about anything.. it's just pointless. honestly i've thought a lot about it.. and i just don't care. i really don't like the woman very much.. after all i've had to go through with her. i'd rather she not steal my good energy now too.

anyone else wanna hug though? :grouphug:

 

You hugged Amma this week? Excellent...what was that like?

 

yes.. friday night.. she's.. well.. she's solid but not. i could just feel the love coming off this woman! she whispered in my ear and it made total sense what she said.. my daughter heard her say something totally different.. but that made sense too.
i wanted to go again tonight because tonights the BIG night.. devi baba when she channels the divine mother! my roommate went.. lucky!

i wanna hug her again...

 

that is so awesome....good for you. We watched a movie all about her called Dershan. I didn't get the whole concept at first but do now.....
What a beautiful spirit. I wanna have love emulate from me like that for it to be undeniable....

good luck getting there again!