This isn’t happening to me but let us say that a guy got engaged to a girl. The guy is 30 and the girl is 26. The guy just found out that the girl slept with 53 people. Now this guy is thinking twice about marrying this girl. What should he do?
Spam, do you mean in her life or while they were going out cuz lots o chicks do lots o guys by the time they 26 hell some of the sophmores in my hs have done three in a night im sure some have done over 60 in their life
That guy would have to decide what is most important and if he can be with that person after learning of her sexual history. He has a right to be upset. That info should have been disclosed earlier in the relationship. Maybe she was afraid what he would think and never brought it up. But I guess she finally did tell him which is good (better late then never I guess). I guess it is all about what is most important to that guy and is he willing to overlook that fact. At least she did tell him and he didnt have to find out some other way...
if its that important to him, he shouldve asked about her past sexual activities beforehand. to the op, "sleeps" is present tense and "slept" is past. title says she is currently fucking 53 people, which i doubt is what you mean
he should love her for her and not even care. Its like asking what if she found out that he slept with 53 girls. She won't care as long as he's a nice guy and she loves him.
Dump her real fast because she'll be fucking everybody and their brother. If you don't your gonna be in for a fucked up ride my friend. Get out now! Move on quick! Been there, went through it with a slut that was fucking everybody in town. Talk about embarassing. What fucking whore to say the least. That's tainted pussy my friend. If you stay get her tested for AIDS. DUMP and run fast my friend
Consider himself lucky for having an experienced gf. Seriously, hes only thinking about it because his ego is a little hurt that shes slept with more pple
What are her future plans? He nor she can change the past. Is she a good fuck? Does she give good head? Has the fucked around?
Did she lie about the numbers in the past and is now telling the truth? Best reason to dump her. Lying about stupid shit means she'll probably lie about serious shit, such as whether she's been tested. If it's just the numbers? Probably not the best reason to dump someone, if those fucks have all been in the past and she hasn't cheated on her fiance. Also, she's 36? Think about it like this, if she lost her virginity at 18 and she has had sex with 3 guys per year, that's 54 guys right there. That's not as excessive, as say, someone who has sex with a new guy every month (that's 216 people in 18 years). I really believe that one should look at the rate, rather than sheer numbers. From a female point of view, I don't care that my fiance has been with over forty chicks (he's been having sex for 7 years). I lost count after 5, which seems to be impossible but it's true. My own range: More than ten but less than twenty. From counting the ones I can remember, I come up with 14, maybe 15 (in 5 years). So he has at least doubled my count, but if anything, sex with an experienced guy is WAY BETTER than inexperienced ones. My first three were virgins and I didn't have an orgasm until guy #4 (who wasn't). I don't know if experience matters as much when guys are having sex with chicks, but I'm sure the experience wouldn't hurt. Peace and love
