What first attracts you to someone?

Honestly, Looks really aren't a factor to me. What really sways my feelings is a girl who can have an intelligent conversation with me. Its a rare thing in my life to find a girl who can match wits with mine, and it is truly attractive.

 

Face is the most important in my opinion. a girl can have the nicest body i've ever seen, but if she has an ugly face, it wouldn't happen. Aside from face, tits, ass, legs, and eyes. so i guess mostly everything hahaha. bad teeth are a huge turnoff. i don't care how beautiful a girl is, if she has bad teeth i get sceeved out. ugly feet are a big turn off too. i probably sound really picky but i'm really not. most of my friends actually tell me i'm not picky enough.

 

with the boyfriend i have now, it was every thing that atracted me to him we clicked strait away. this was also because we spoke on the fone a lot prior to meeting.

 

I like them nerdy and skinny. Not /too/ nerdy, but you know. My last boy had a fro thing going on which led me to imaging pulling it while...
yeah.

In a girl *confused person here!* I like eyes and ass. haha.

 

while i am a sucker for pretty eyes, it usually has nothing to do with appearance whatsoever. it has a lot to do with a certain aura a person can give off, you can feel their passion and beauty and if i feel it, it attracts me to them immedately

 

id say their personality - can make the best looking person ugly

and second, eyes. and i really appreciate a good hairdo..

 

Eyes initially, if i can see them from where I am, haha.

Then legs, I'm a huge legs fan + ass (as are a lot of guys). The perfect set of toned legs will set me off, huge sucker for them >_<!

 

If it's about appearance, his hair, eyes, hands and arms are the things I look at first. And a nice ass ;-)
But to me, if I get to know someone's personality and I love them for it, they automaticly become much more beautiful to me. I like guys with a soft character, funny, someone who doesn't judge people.

 

Face....I like masculine facial features... pronounced cheekbones, a heavily-set jaw, pronounced eyebrows...thats very sexy.
then hair and eyes...preferably dark hair and green/blue eyes.
then hands and torso...and wide shoulders...

and he of course has to be intelligent.

 

I love hair, eyes and BREASTS.
But seriously.

 

Personallity aside, people are attracted to many things. It is after that initial - wow or even - UGH, that we develop more into personallities.

I meet women all the time and what comes up in my mind first thing is not how to get them into bed, but how good can they kiss. Kissing is such a overwhelming turn on.

 

What really is attractive to me is nice hair and a great laugh and smile. ^_^

 

You hit it right there. No pun intended. I have had some dam good looking guys in my life. But after being used and abused, literally. You come to realize that the Spirit of someone is the thing that can be the most beautiful thing in the world. Humor, a pleasant sense of humor, kindness, gentleness, love for others. I know someone like that and miss him terribly. (From PTT) I guess maybe this falls under the "pheromones thing". But a strong good love sensing man is a VERY GOOD THING!!! .

 

smiling. it shows they are a happy friendly person which definitely attracts me more than guys who just look moody.

 

I love a girl with a pretty face and someone who is naturally pretty and doesn't slapp on loads of make-up.

I love a girl who is also curvy and flirty lol

Kate you are gorgeous wanna chat lol? Yahoo me: hard_man_34

or MSN: datmandan@hotmail.com

 

Lol meant to say Katy not kate......

 

there is something delicious about a female who looks 'innocent' even when one knows she can't be for whatever reason.

 

What attracts me most in women physically are curves. But I can also feel attracted to women who are very lean. Depends.

Most importantly, I like women who are genuine, and open. THAT sends me off my rocker!

 

uniqueness i guess, most girls ive noticed are the same, into same stuff as others and most pretend to be something they arent. im trying to say these girls are rare, too special almost. the eyes is pretty much the first thing i notice, some girls just have eyes you can stare at for hours. i dont really care much for breasts or butt or anything, just as long as one does not have bones poking out like a starved buffalo or isnt obese, more personality.
And intelligence for me also, id like to be able to have a good conversation and get an oppinion. and i dont know- just the feeling pretty much, some people have like a really comfortable feel to them, unlike some that make you feel unwelcome or something. but i dunno its just me

 

Ok..well if we're judging off the topic of just physical appearance...

There has to be a sweet yet evilness to him. I'm all into the vampire pretty boy type, however a bit of ruggedness never hurts either. Sweet smile, personality, caring but yet dominate and strongwilled with a mind set all his own!!