Maybe if you tell him that. Perhaps approach him and ask if there's anyone *else* he is interested in back home. It sounds like you're the only one he's into (from your post) but just ask to see if this might be a factor. If he says no, then perhaps propose a relationship that is not as intense as boyfriend/girlfriend. I assume you're about the same age so more than likely, he's been involved with other relationships that haven't worked out. Perhaps an ex was really clingy and he fears the same thing will happen in your relationship, if you became an item. Or that's happened to him with all of his exes so he may believe that all relationships are high maintenance, "I need you here 24/7." If this is the case, assure him that this isn't going to happen and you would like some sort of long-distance relationship. You know, talk on the phone, see each other occasionally, not see other people, but keep it casual. Maybe you can call it "seeing each other exclusively" instead of boyfriend/girlfriend. Then he'll know you aren't expecting him to be by your side constantly. Bottom line: talk to him about what you want and what you don't want in the relationship. Keep it casual until something changes and work/distance won't be an issue anymore. Peace and love
