my boyfriend is married.....

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by gdess, Nov 14, 2007.

  1. gdess

    gdess Member

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    has anyone dated a man that has a wife, however the wife is aware of the relationship?

    we have a normal day to day relationship.....and it's been successful for the whole of the time we've been together(over a year)....the wife is very aware of the love we share together and claims to not care about it b/c they have been together for so long.

    has anyone ever had a successful relationship with a married man?

    and i'm not talking about men who are deceitful and cheat...i'm talking about full honesty from the start.

    bless, gdess
     
  2. Wraithform

    Wraithform Member

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    Honestly, I've never heard of anything like this, though this is an interesting story. Would you care to explain more of how this came about, as well as how this is working out for you?
     
  3. Marija

    Marija Senior Member

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    define successful relationship
     
  4. Pappys4angels

    Pappys4angels Member

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    how in the hell do you call a relationship with a married man good?
    are you smoking something that we should be on? this is some jerry springer shit, but at the same time, i cant help but wonder if there isnt more to the story, not to many married women will knowingly let their husbands date, non there have sex with someone else other then them without there being some kinda of PROBLEM? Unless your into the swinging lifestyle?
    and if this relationship is soooo great? why is he not divoced yet? and with you
    totally, and married to you? explain that?
     
  5. playitforward

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    Yes, I have heard of many situations like the one you are in. I am in one. It can be very painful or it can be very fulfilling (sometimes both). A key to success is that everyone is honest with each other and most of all themselves. You may want to look into google or yahoo groups for polyamory discussions. If you're on Tribe (kinda a hippie version of myspace) there are many groups on there about it too.

    Post or PM me if you have any other questions.
     

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