Help, advice please :(

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by NEPats32, Nov 12, 2007.

  1. NEPats32

    NEPats32 Member

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    So I lost my virginitya few days ago, however it was not what I had expected. My girlfried of a few weeks now and I were making out on the couch and we deidedd it was time, and moved to the bedroom. I was in my briefs, her in her panties and we were making out, while gyrating our "parts" together, I became harder than a chinese algebra test and went to put on the condom. By the time I got the damn thing on which wasnt that long (MAYBE 20 secs) I had lost some erection but the condom was on my 70% erected dick. I put that into her and we began to fuck, I am somewhat well endowed so even with 70% it was still somewhat possible, but then I lost my erection completely mid sex during my first time!>!>?? she hoppeed on top and we tried that but it was just striaght out flacid. Anyone know why it shrank so quickly while putting the condom on and why it went down completely after a minute or two (and no i did NOT cum) of the deed?? Happen to anyone else, what can I do to stop this from happening next time? I am 18 years old which is odd as well......
     
  2. PurpleGel

    PurpleGel Senior Member

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    performance anxiety. happened to me my first time too.

    no worries....
     
  3. sxtech

    sxtech Member

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    Man, You should be all good, if she knew it was your first time its expected that your gonna suck, I think you guys should just keep going, and it will sort itself out, practise makes perefect.
     
  4. YoungOne

    YoungOne Member

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    Perfectly normal, maybe you were just nervous.
    If she's a cool girl she'll let you try again :]
     
  5. GuruLite

    GuruLite Member

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    That's a pretty common problem. It's happened to me on occasion. Helps if you're with the same person for a while.
     
  6. Cutted

    Cutted Cutted

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    The first time is usually not that great, and you clearly have a case of "performance anxiety". Also, you really do screw with your brain and not the delivery system between your legs, and taking 20 secnds to fiddle with a condom will usually break the chain of nitric oxide from your brain to your penis which gives you the erection. Next time, have her put the condom on while you watch.

     

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