I guess this is gonna sound totally funny to all you experts right. But hey we all have to start somewhere, i'm totally up for trying anal sex, however i have a few questions. 1. Does it really hurt? I mean i can take pain but i like to know what i'm getting myself in for. 2. Is it messy, you know like after and stuff. Thats the one hang up i have. Write me back asap people, it'll be much appreciated
1. It depends on how big is dick is, and if he does any foreplay. He should spend lots of time licking your ass and fingering it with lube to get you relaxed. It helps if you breathe and push out like you're taking a crap when he's trying to enter you. It hurts worse if you're all clenched up. 2. You need to poop beforehand and use an enema to clean yourself out. There shouldn't be a big mess, but don't be surprised if some fecal matter gets on his dick. P.S. I'd go buy a thin butt plug or vibe and play by yourself first. It'll be easier if you're used to something being up your ass and know what to expect.
Forget it. Anal sex isn't all that good. A good fuck or a good blow job or a good hand job is much better. His dick will hurt and so will your ass. It takes a long time to get use to and it isn't worth it unless you are a homosexual and don't go for the other.
