So angry I could throttle him, i need some reassurance

Basically, i've been talking on MSN to this guy for about a year now, and sorting out his problems for him. He's always been a bit of an idiot, but a likeable one. He's had 3 girlfriends whilst I've known him, all 3 of whom I know. Before Tonight he's been up his own arse but quite harmless. Until one girl he slept with but never went out with admitted she'd slept with another guy. He hit the roof and went mental, saying he'd going and sleep with loads of girls for revenge. I told him to think objectively, took him through the problem step by step, and finally told him revenge is a dish best served cold, ie so he'd forget about doing it. I told him it was the girl's choice and tehy weren't even going out. He sent this to me. Excuse the language, I never swear unless I'm frothing at the mouth. Oh, and he's just this second emailed me. I'm not going to open it for a day or so.

him: i know.. i wouldnt not do something i plan to do just because im advised against it.. would make me a dork.. this plan is great nyika.. im glad you made me realise that waiting for revenge can be even better.. my new plan involves getting closer to caz.. with a pierced condom, obviously, she doesn't know.. and if she gets pregnant.. i'll just say to her.. 'hey thats what you get for sleeping about bitch'.. great plan, may not work, but if it does, fantastic

me:oh harry, atht is full of absolute shit

me: how could you?

him:why not? it's an evil great idea

me:she slept with one guy, you elave her with a baby that will ruin the rest of her life

him:she'd deserve to have to go through the abortion process

me:no she doesn't ahrry

me:that i the cruelest thing i've ever heard

him:so? shes a slut

me:you weren't fucking going out

me:she coudl do what she wanted

me:it's her choice

me: and to be so mean is fucking stupid. fuck off harry.

I am so angry I'm shaking and quivering. i don't know what to do. Can i ahve some reassurance?

 

his emails were begging me to unblock him. Come off it.

 

Sounds like a **** to me. Ditch him.

 

Yeah, spending half of your life having to pay child support is a great way to get revenge. I especially like the part where he says he'd be a dork if he backed down from his plan. I'd rather be a dork for backing down than a fucking idiot for even thinking the plan was a good idea in the first place.

If you do speak with him again, tell him that living well is the best revenge. If he wants to stay with her, stay with her. If he wants to sever, sever. But tell him for fucks sake don't involve some innocent kid in a stupid idiot plot like that.

 

He sounds like he's being very immature about it. I can understand him wanting to get back at her. I can even understand him wanting to cheat on her to make things even. But piercing a condom and hoping to get her pregnant is a step way too far. If you honestly think he might do it, you should probably warn her....

 

This bloke is obviously, to use a technical term, a "****" of the highest order. Tell him his revenge will backfire because he's gonna have to pay child support. Oh, and if you know the girl he's planning to fuck, then warn her NOT to sleep with this arsehole under any circumstances.
Shit like this makes me so mad.. if it would solve anything I'd suggest working him over with a cricket bat (hey, it might improve his IQ a few points).

 

don't insult a perfectly good **** by calling a rotten dickwad like that a ****.

 

Its all hot air, unless he is psychotic nothing untoward will happen. I'm sure everyone has played revenge games in their head, your mate should of kept it their instead of sharing it, silly boy.

Tell him he has no rights over anyone elses behaviour, if he wants a monogamous partner then get married. i.e. grow up.

 

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Sorry:tongue:

 

Sorry, That was me typing in super angry mode. He's a school drop-out, so that explains his! It wansn't what he said, cos he wouldn't do it, I know that, it's just the fact he thought it that shocked me.

 

I'd warn the lassie not to bother sleeping with him again if he tries it on. And leave the fucker well alone.