Do you ever feel like your not good enough and are never going to be good enough or pretty enough for anyone or anything?? ive been feeling that way. i dont know why. ive been told all my life how beautiful i am but i feel so ugly all the time. and i feel like im never going to amount to anything no matter what i do i will end up like my parents. i know its up to me whether i do or not. but i am just filled with this horrible self doubt and ive dug myself in a hole i cant get out of. just wondering if anyone else ever felt this way at times
i know exactly what u mean. i feel this way alot too. it weird somtimes it seems like i want to feel that way for some reason. like when im upset and feeling like shit thats all i think about. like i enjoy feeding my negitivity. so far the best cure ive found is to smoke some weed. i know exactly what u mean though. i dont think its too uncommon. just live one day at a time and make that day rock. worrying about the future is just stressfull.
sara sweety,the situation u live in every day jas to crush your spirit & make you feel hopeless to change, after all, what changes around you? everything every day continues to stay stagnant & miserable, we've talked about this before, & i understand why your hesitant to step out of the situation yopur in, u feel responcible for takig care of everyone else whos stuck there ight along side you..\ but you need to take care of you 1st & foremost, you can break every pattern in your life, if you jus t step away from all the causes.. nobody should have tolive through what you have, & you'll only be stuckin that hole as long as you dont stick your head out & see whats outside it.. youve already shown incredible strength in not fully embracing these patterns like so many of the ppl around you, but every day it kills u insidealittle more.. take 3-6 months, & get far away, immerse yourself in a more possitiv environment..& then if you feel the need to go back you can recharged, more stable & stronger in the knowledge that u can break free, overcome the stagnation & live without the constant reminders of the hell u were forced to live through.. much respect to you for being not allthat screwed up concidering..
We all feel like that sometimes.. I guess some people more than others. But just look in the mirror and smile and look at what you like... your body is the only one you have so learn to accept it and love yourself, it will be the best thing you'll ever do. And remember, you are an individual person, you are not anyone else, including your parents. Just do your thing... take care.
i feel like you do all the time! people will tell me im wonderful, or i am sooo pretty and i have no idea why they say things like that because i don't believe it myself. then i realized, that i have low-self asteem and that perhaps i am too hard on myself sometimes. you should think about that sometime, are you really not pretty? or are you beating yourself up too much? and life in general can really bring your spirits so low that everything about you can feel repulsive. don't listen to you!!!!! your wonderful, ok??? peace and love sis,~Danni
good pont naoki..i'm not sure its really lowself esteem though, except the lowself esteemsof the ppl surrounding her.. she is very pretty..& probly the only 1 around her whos got much self esteem at all.. its the ugliness around her that bings her down..its too damn much to handle possibly sheeven feels partialy responcible for the ugliness just for being there and not being able to stop it
yeah! that's true; or the fact that life sux and people are falling apart around her and she can't do anything to help. that feeling of being helpless can really bring a person down, even to the point of self-loathing!
